Is it normal to feel sexually unattractive?

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I feel like I am sexually unattractive because no girl ever asked me out or told me I am attractive. Also, I have never been in a relationship though I have had many friends who were girls. Nobody also matches with me on Tinder. I am not a pretty muscular or tall guy but I am not fat either. I feel like I should be in a relationship or atleast try sex but I find no options around me. I am 19, turning 20 soon.

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  • Flawless
    4 years ago | pl

    we're less likely to just tell guys they're attractive. give it time.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago | pl

      So men put greater effort in dating and being vulnerable? I can't even believe I would be attractive to girls.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago | pl

    Tinder is probably not the best place to meet nice people.

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago | pl

    Yes lol. The problem comes with your justification. If you think that because no girls have asked you out that you are unattractive, thats just dumb. You need to take some initiative my man.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago | pl

      I had asked a girl out last year. Had a really bad experience with her saying yes and changing her mind a few days later. She was a best friend.

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      • LloydAsher
        4 years ago | pl

        The worst they can say is no.

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      • bleedingdiarhea
        4 years ago | pl

        Best friends are the last women to bother asking out. They consider themselves your friend because they dont want you emotionally or sexually.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago | pl

          So whom to ask out? Strangers?

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          • bleedingdiarhea
            4 years ago | pl

            Most of the women I've had relationships with I met through family or friends. Most strangers would be taken aback by someone they dont know asking them out.

            Unless they're like a barfly or a woman with problems of some sort.

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago | pl

        What was the bad experience? Was she mean, did she insult you, or did she just change her mind?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago | pl

          She said she was confused when I asked her finally but previously she said to a friend that she will say yes. Then she accepted when I said let us give it a try. Then she stopped picking up my phone and replied very late to my texts. She would never agree to meet and once I brought earrings for her. She rejected those. Later that day, a mutual friend just left me and later I saw her with my friend. Two days later she said I won't be in a relationship that too on IM.

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      • Doesnormalmatter
        4 years ago | pl

        Yeah thats tuff no doubt. But if getting rejected once is enough to put you off that much, then getting good sex and or a relationship must not be that high of a priority to you. If you want to make it a higher priority, learn to look past things like that.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago | pl

          So is dating supposed to be like real tough?

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