First of all let me say this, I am a fat person. I have been battling my weight like an enemy since I had my first child. Even I feel sad sometimes when I see fat people. But not for the same reasons as you, which I think are mostly selfish. I feel for them because I know the battle they face, it's not easy to get it off. Not everyone is fat because they overeat. I undereat, and I'm overweight. I have a blood sugar problem which makes it very difficult to lose weight. Furthermore, I understand the struggle within because being overweight results in one feeling worthless and ashamed and ugly all over. It becomes more and more difficult to face the outside world because of people like you not accepting us for who we are and giving us sorry looks and cruel remarks. Rather mind your own business or learn to be tolerant of others no matter what their problems. It could be you one day, you could even lose a limb and that will result in people looking at you with sorry looks. How would you feel? I'll tell you how us fatties feel, we don't need your backhanded sympathy or pity. We just need you to turn around and walk the other way without so much as a backward glance. It takes more than just slim and beautiful people to make the world go round, we all have our place despite being different from each other and beauty is definately skin deep. Don't judge lest ye be judged.
Is it normal to feel sad when I see fat people?
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First of all let me say this, I am a fat person. I have been battling my weight like an enemy since I had my first child. Even I feel sad sometimes when I see fat people. But not for the same reasons as you, which I think are mostly selfish. I feel for them because I know the battle they face, it's not easy to get it off. Not everyone is fat because they overeat. I undereat, and I'm overweight. I have a blood sugar problem which makes it very difficult to lose weight. Furthermore, I understand the struggle within because being overweight results in one feeling worthless and ashamed and ugly all over. It becomes more and more difficult to face the outside world because of people like you not accepting us for who we are and giving us sorry looks and cruel remarks. Rather mind your own business or learn to be tolerant of others no matter what their problems. It could be you one day, you could even lose a limb and that will result in people looking at you with sorry looks. How would you feel? I'll tell you how us fatties feel, we don't need your backhanded sympathy or pity. We just need you to turn around and walk the other way without so much as a backward glance. It takes more than just slim and beautiful people to make the world go round, we all have our place despite being different from each other and beauty is definately skin deep. Don't judge lest ye be judged.