It´s normal and moraly it´s about personal preferences.
I attentionly don´t answer to all texts because I don´t feel that it is necessary and when forced to reply I feel that my privacy is violated. Even thou this is a really common problem little reflections have been made by this phenomenon and it´s most often caused by differences in value systems, and ofcourse everyone is afraid of being rejected which may trigger tough feelings about it. Just reflect for yourself if it´s a really necessary message you´re sending and that your values might be different from the other person so the receiver might just feel offended if you´re forcing a reply.
Well I feel that any txt to do with asking someone how they are should really be replied too as it seems rude to not reply ya know. Also I think u are correct that many people have different value systems however, if someone is important to me and I want to keep in touch I will spare a few seconds and reply very happily. It would be nice if certain people did the same but supposedly those who don't are the ones that are not interested in my well-being let alone me.
Is it normal to feel rejected when people don't reply ?
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It´s normal and moraly it´s about personal preferences.
I attentionly don´t answer to all texts because I don´t feel that it is necessary and when forced to reply I feel that my privacy is violated. Even thou this is a really common problem little reflections have been made by this phenomenon and it´s most often caused by differences in value systems, and ofcourse everyone is afraid of being rejected which may trigger tough feelings about it. Just reflect for yourself if it´s a really necessary message you´re sending and that your values might be different from the other person so the receiver might just feel offended if you´re forcing a reply.
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Well I feel that any txt to do with asking someone how they are should really be replied too as it seems rude to not reply ya know. Also I think u are correct that many people have different value systems however, if someone is important to me and I want to keep in touch I will spare a few seconds and reply very happily. It would be nice if certain people did the same but supposedly those who don't are the ones that are not interested in my well-being let alone me.