I find myself really disappointed when I meet fans of obscure bands that I love. Like somehow my relationship with that music is no longer special. Like I get glopped in with a social group of fans and I lose my identity, my personal experience and relationship with the music. I and my feelings about the music become irrelevant. I feel like a discarded wrapper blowing about in a gutter's breeze. Utterly insignificant. It's the same feeling that I imagine other people have when they lose something or someone they truly love.
So, yeah, I can relate. I can empathize. I can not empathize at all with somebody who loves something I love, though. I don't know how normal this is. I suspect not at all, but what the hell do I know?
iin to feel regretful to get someone to like something you like?
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I find myself really disappointed when I meet fans of obscure bands that I love. Like somehow my relationship with that music is no longer special. Like I get glopped in with a social group of fans and I lose my identity, my personal experience and relationship with the music. I and my feelings about the music become irrelevant. I feel like a discarded wrapper blowing about in a gutter's breeze. Utterly insignificant. It's the same feeling that I imagine other people have when they lose something or someone they truly love.
So, yeah, I can relate. I can empathize. I can not empathize at all with somebody who loves something I love, though. I don't know how normal this is. I suspect not at all, but what the hell do I know?
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that's what killed nirvana.