If you have sex 7 times per year or less, it's time to sleep in a separate bedroom. This qualifies as a sexless marriage. Your wife is likely a closeted lesbian or rape victim who has suppressed her past to the point that no one will ever know about it. You will never be more than a brother to her. She will likely use the hope - despair - hope cycle to try to get children off of you if she thinks you will leave her.
Keep a stack of porn under your new bed and masturbate frequently. You'll feel better. Commitment can be slow to die. After a few months, a bit of counseling can help you with that.
I was in a sexless marriage, and the quiet desperation was unrelenting. Eventually, it destroys your health. You have got to take care of yourself first.
It's hilarious how you jump to your own conclusions based on absolutely nothing. We have sex way more then seven times a year and normal we do it multiple times a week it's just this month I haven't been bothered in chasing because I'm always the one to initiate.
Your post makes no reference to a time frame. Good to know you're getting it multiple times per week. I would say you have a high quality problem. Maybe you could have a special night for role playing where she decides the roles. Let's say she decides to get a quick bang on the kitchen counter, and let's say that's not your favorite. Well okay, you let her have her way, complimenting her the whole time on what a dirty girl she is. A few days later it's your turn. Let's say you like leather and chains. Whew, payback time. *raises eyebrows*
Is it normal to feel pissy at your SO for not giving you sex for a while?
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If you have sex 7 times per year or less, it's time to sleep in a separate bedroom. This qualifies as a sexless marriage. Your wife is likely a closeted lesbian or rape victim who has suppressed her past to the point that no one will ever know about it. You will never be more than a brother to her. She will likely use the hope - despair - hope cycle to try to get children off of you if she thinks you will leave her.
Keep a stack of porn under your new bed and masturbate frequently. You'll feel better. Commitment can be slow to die. After a few months, a bit of counseling can help you with that.
I was in a sexless marriage, and the quiet desperation was unrelenting. Eventually, it destroys your health. You have got to take care of yourself first.
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It's hilarious how you jump to your own conclusions based on absolutely nothing. We have sex way more then seven times a year and normal we do it multiple times a week it's just this month I haven't been bothered in chasing because I'm always the one to initiate.
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No conclusions, that's why I said, "If".
Your post makes no reference to a time frame. Good to know you're getting it multiple times per week. I would say you have a high quality problem. Maybe you could have a special night for role playing where she decides the roles. Let's say she decides to get a quick bang on the kitchen counter, and let's say that's not your favorite. Well okay, you let her have her way, complimenting her the whole time on what a dirty girl she is. A few days later it's your turn. Let's say you like leather and chains. Whew, payback time. *raises eyebrows*