Men don't have maternal Instincts, thus they have no attachment to the idea of children to begin with. Like i've said on here before, i was tricked by a partner into having a kid...i didn't feel anything towards the child after she was born...i thought it would change but it hasn't...i just wanted to get the hell out of what seemed like a nightmare to me. Other men may differ.
Paternal is for men by the way.
But I didn't want to continue telling you why your daughter SHOULD be more important to you, as you definitely don't seem ready!
Please don't comment back, I just wanted to state the above.
You are still the most important person to you. ie You can even have more children!
I have only replied to your original point of men are not maternal (agreed since that is a female quality ONLY)
I did also imply that what you stated was immature and non responsible generally selfish and childish.
Having a baby girl, is STILL your responsibility 'legally', if you can't do this normally as a father should.
Did you even see the pic of the dad and daughter on the link I posted? YOU are missing out on LEARNING to love and enjoy your OWN child. This is without a doubt extremely sad for both you and your daughter. I'm very sorry that you put yourself in this situation for your daughter's life without a LOVING Dad!!!
Thats if you give a shit about other people. It doesn't seem sad to me, i only felt sad when she was born and the months following. As soon as contact stopped, i began to cheer up....i know it's weird, but it feels normal to me.
No, no.. I meant HER. I don't know about Tommy's case, but my friend he feels absolutely no emotional attachement to the kids and never visits them.
She stopped taking the pill when they got married, even though he asked her to wait with the kids becuase neither of them was mature enough(really young couple)or had enough money to support them. But then they started fighting and she thought that this is exactly what's gonna keep him in the famuily. He left the second he found out.
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Men don't have maternal Instincts, thus they have no attachment to the idea of children to begin with. Like i've said on here before, i was tricked by a partner into having a kid...i didn't feel anything towards the child after she was born...i thought it would change but it hasn't...i just wanted to get the hell out of what seemed like a nightmare to me. Other men may differ.
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Paternal is for men by the way.
But I didn't want to continue telling you why your daughter SHOULD be more important to you, as you definitely don't seem ready!
Please don't comment back, I just wanted to state the above.
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Nope it's science, men don't actually have maternal instincts. It's not something you choose. Or you're just a whipped puss puss.
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I'm stating that MEN are NOT MATERNAL, they are PATERNAL
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paternal_bond
"The father of a child can develop the bond during the pregnancy of his partner, feeling attachment to the developing child....."
"Fathers find many ways to strengthen the father-child bond with their children, such as soothing, consoling, feeding..............."
ie ITS NATURAL
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"The father of a child can develop the bond during the pregnancy of his partner, feeling attachment to the developing child....."
Keyword "can"
But the whole thing just gives me the creeps, i get one life...be damned if i'm not going to live it for me...otherwise it's a waste.
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You are still the most important person to you. ie You can even have more children!
I have only replied to your original point of men are not maternal (agreed since that is a female quality ONLY)
I did also imply that what you stated was immature and non responsible generally selfish and childish.
Having a baby girl, is STILL your responsibility 'legally', if you can't do this normally as a father should.
Did you even see the pic of the dad and daughter on the link I posted? YOU are missing out on LEARNING to love and enjoy your OWN child. This is without a doubt extremely sad for both you and your daughter. I'm very sorry that you put yourself in this situation for your daughter's life without a LOVING Dad!!!
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Thats if you give a shit about other people. It doesn't seem sad to me, i only felt sad when she was born and the months following. As soon as contact stopped, i began to cheer up....i know it's weird, but it feels normal to me.
My buddy was tricked into this hell as well, man. Now he has twins and he pays a good half of his paycheck to support that c*nt and her offspring.
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You mean, THEIR offspring.
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No, no.. I meant HER. I don't know about Tommy's case, but my friend he feels absolutely no emotional attachement to the kids and never visits them.
She stopped taking the pill when they got married, even though he asked her to wait with the kids becuase neither of them was mature enough(really young couple)or had enough money to support them. But then they started fighting and she thought that this is exactly what's gonna keep him in the famuily. He left the second he found out.
So it's ok to do what she did? Not an accident, a trick?
Exactly, i'm too young for kids and i'll be damned if i'll let someone ruin my life before it begins just because they're selfish and a liar.
No paycheck though, i made it clear: over your dead body...i'll serve a life sentence on general principal.