Is it normal to feel lonely even though you want to be alone?

I find myself feeling dreadfully lonely or hopeless In social environments, like I try to make friends but I find it really hard to actually hang out or spend time with them.

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Based on 18 votes (15 yes)
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  • Somenormie

    I feel that way most of the time sometimes I don't know how to push myself.

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  • ellnell

    Yeah i'm the same way.
    I am introverted but I enjoy socializing with close friends every now and then and when I can't (like now) I fall into an abyss. It's hard for me because most of my friends live at a distance and travelling is not ideal during a pandemic.
    Even though I have social anxiety I enjoy having people around me, so long as they don't bother me and I can just observe in silence.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Feeling lonely while surrounded by people is so much worse than feeling lonely when one is alone.

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    • Adrenaline wears off though, so that anxiety fades pretty quickly (like when you leave)

      Loneliness from being alone is like a depletion of seratonin and dopamine and whatever else. If you're not getting any of those feel good chemicals you're constantly in a state of vegetative depression

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