Is it normal to feel like you'll never meet "the one"?

I'm only 20 but sometimes I really feel like I'll never meet my soulmate or my one true love. Sounds corny, but sometimes I feel like love just isn't gonna happen for me. And I'm probably gonna end up alone. Anyone else have this problem? Don't get me wrong I def WANT to meet someone and fall head over heels but at times I just don't think I WILL.

Is It Normal?
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  • Don't give up hope he will find you at the right time and place.

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  • I'm with "Myway75" - it seems when we are looking for true love or our "soulmate" - we begin to get discouraged & think it will never happen because we get impatient & that's normal at your age. Maybe it's too early for you right now, I would suggest to you to just have fun & make new friends that you can trust, be true to yourself always & when you least expect it, that's when it will happen. BELIEVE ME when I say: "Look beyond the physical & material aspects & see what the two of you share in common - that's what is important to keep a long healthy relationship and always communicate with eachother!!". With saying this, don't put added pressure on you so early in your life, there's plenty of that already. Keep an open mind about everything before making any decisions that you will have to live with. I hope this helps you remember to always enjoy and be thankful of what you are blessed with in your life!! Take care & good luck.

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  • I totaly believe in soulmates. I just think you're looking for it and that's not how it works. Your soulmate will find u when u least expect it. Just keep your head up ;)

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  • I disagree with the two comments ahead of me. I think and believe there is someone out there made for you. That God has a plan for you and knows who He wants you with and who's perfect for you. Just be patient. Your still young.

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  • I agree with saphire

    I don't think there is a one, there are people you get along with better and have great chemistry but in the end it boils down to how much effort you put into the relationship. And how you build it up

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  • you won't , you will settle for nit being miserable and one day you will die

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  • I feel the same way. I really hope that i will find them, because i have "fallen in love" twice and they both ended up badly. Sometimes i wonder if im just not good enough for love. I hope im wrong. Hope you also find true love. :-)

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  • I sometimes feel the same way. I find comfort in the fact that oneday my man is going to find me, all I need to do is be patient. Once I also realized I wasn't going to be single forever I found myself enjoying being single while I am.

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  • There is no such thing as "the one"

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  • I think we all get in that rut sometimes. It's normal to feel that way at some point in your life, and don't worry it will happen for you eventually.

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  • One bullet.

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  • Some ppl never do. That's why there are ppl 30,40,50,60 single. Good luck

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  • Why don't you respond to the fifty thousand other whine tits in here that ask the same damn question? Maybe you will find your "one".

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