I do not have any friends and I am not really capable of making some. It just gets really really awkward and I always end up hanging out with the wrong crowd. So I know how you feel and tell you what, it ain't going to get any better. It's mostly a style thing... they just don't feel you. They ignore you because you just haven't got what it takes to be one of them. Like: you go to them, they are all talking about whatever, mostly somebody who is not there, expressing their opinions about whoever, criticizing in definitely not a very constructive way, exchanging glances, working on their social standings and role games, so you look at them and feel mad or left out because you do not really have anything to say about whatever they might be talking about. Most of the times it is like they are not really talking about anything, if they just used faces without uttering a word it would be pretty much the same thing. It's a matter of "waves" really.. Even if you lay everything out in a single speech to let them know what you think is wrong about them and the things they do ans how they interact with each other and tell them why you think you always end up getting left out, there would still be no reason for them to change, since no matter what they see themselves as the winners and you will always be a loser to them since you can't be nor act like one of them, and get the whole enjoyment out of the whole thing. Some people just aren't compatible, it happened everytime to me as well. They were always talking about soccer and women and cars and jobs and the last one night stand and that very cool pair of shoes everyone wanted and the new haircut and the troubles he or she was having with his or her boyfriend or girlfriend and that particular event that made them all laugh and they went on and on about it the whole evening and the new videogame everyone was waiting for and the concert and the last beer tasted funny and how he or she did in bed, and blah blah, and I just stood there, bored half to tears, feeling like just yelling at everybody: shut the fuck up you idiots! What are you even talking about? who gives a shit about all this? is this the best you people can do? is this everything you are capable of talking about? Do we really have to talk about every little crap we do and be so bloody enthisiastic about repeating the same old crap everyday? Incredible things are happening in the world right now and we are wasting our time talking about this jerk dick and that bitch blowing skills. What next? we are going to play dungeons and douchebags? But instead, I just excused myself, went back home and wrote down stuff. This still happens to me today. I look at people hanging out, try overhearing what they are saying and just go: yeah, they still like talking about nothing.
I agree with the fact that different people talk about different things, i never will really hang out with hockey freaks even though im in canada because that's not my interest. i don't see how lots of people trying to put a small black piece of plastic into a small net with sticks can be so interesting. lol but that's me, i think you the we just need to find the right kind of people to hang with i doubt you are the only one who prefers to game and watch tv instead of talking about bullshit. but like you those people tend to stay in their rooms and shit so you see the dilemma.
I think the OP should just get more opportunity to know more types of people (like join some specialty club or sumthing) and i'm sure you'll find your niche.
Is it normal to feel like you have no friends?
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I do not have any friends and I am not really capable of making some. It just gets really really awkward and I always end up hanging out with the wrong crowd. So I know how you feel and tell you what, it ain't going to get any better. It's mostly a style thing... they just don't feel you. They ignore you because you just haven't got what it takes to be one of them. Like: you go to them, they are all talking about whatever, mostly somebody who is not there, expressing their opinions about whoever, criticizing in definitely not a very constructive way, exchanging glances, working on their social standings and role games, so you look at them and feel mad or left out because you do not really have anything to say about whatever they might be talking about. Most of the times it is like they are not really talking about anything, if they just used faces without uttering a word it would be pretty much the same thing. It's a matter of "waves" really.. Even if you lay everything out in a single speech to let them know what you think is wrong about them and the things they do ans how they interact with each other and tell them why you think you always end up getting left out, there would still be no reason for them to change, since no matter what they see themselves as the winners and you will always be a loser to them since you can't be nor act like one of them, and get the whole enjoyment out of the whole thing. Some people just aren't compatible, it happened everytime to me as well. They were always talking about soccer and women and cars and jobs and the last one night stand and that very cool pair of shoes everyone wanted and the new haircut and the troubles he or she was having with his or her boyfriend or girlfriend and that particular event that made them all laugh and they went on and on about it the whole evening and the new videogame everyone was waiting for and the concert and the last beer tasted funny and how he or she did in bed, and blah blah, and I just stood there, bored half to tears, feeling like just yelling at everybody: shut the fuck up you idiots! What are you even talking about? who gives a shit about all this? is this the best you people can do? is this everything you are capable of talking about? Do we really have to talk about every little crap we do and be so bloody enthisiastic about repeating the same old crap everyday? Incredible things are happening in the world right now and we are wasting our time talking about this jerk dick and that bitch blowing skills. What next? we are going to play dungeons and douchebags? But instead, I just excused myself, went back home and wrote down stuff. This still happens to me today. I look at people hanging out, try overhearing what they are saying and just go: yeah, they still like talking about nothing.
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I agree with the fact that different people talk about different things, i never will really hang out with hockey freaks even though im in canada because that's not my interest. i don't see how lots of people trying to put a small black piece of plastic into a small net with sticks can be so interesting. lol but that's me, i think you the we just need to find the right kind of people to hang with i doubt you are the only one who prefers to game and watch tv instead of talking about bullshit. but like you those people tend to stay in their rooms and shit so you see the dilemma.
I think the OP should just get more opportunity to know more types of people (like join some specialty club or sumthing) and i'm sure you'll find your niche.
bonne chance!!!