When you integrate yourself into an already established circle of friendship, you are going to have to put up with several months of being the odd duck for a while. It's all about establishing a pecking order (which always exists among friends) and nobody wants to feel replaced or threatened by letting an outsider in. That they even include you at all says a lot about their intentions: that You are good enough to include in their circle (on a trial basis).
So far, you've been giving up before you even got started, and you've been proving that you are not worth it (when in fact, you really are worth it, you just didn't know how to show it).
Keep trying; they WILL love you eventually, you just have to be there (at least once a week on average). Good luck. :)
Is it normal to feel like you have no friends?
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When you integrate yourself into an already established circle of friendship, you are going to have to put up with several months of being the odd duck for a while. It's all about establishing a pecking order (which always exists among friends) and nobody wants to feel replaced or threatened by letting an outsider in. That they even include you at all says a lot about their intentions: that You are good enough to include in their circle (on a trial basis).
So far, you've been giving up before you even got started, and you've been proving that you are not worth it (when in fact, you really are worth it, you just didn't know how to show it).
Keep trying; they WILL love you eventually, you just have to be there (at least once a week on average). Good luck. :)