I don't think this necessarily means you'll have a problem with getting close to someone, maybe just some people. I'm very similar to you, but it's never been a major problem for me. I still feel very close to certain people. I can't be like that with everyone, though, because it does feel intrusive to me when people are clingy. I don't like feeling like I don't have any freedom or independence, it makes me very uncomfortable. I don't think we're the only ones either.
Although I love things like hugs, I tend to keep to myself, and it usually just happens to me, if that makes any sense. I try not to worry too much about this, and I don't think you should either. It is possible to be close with people, which I know for a fact because I am close with certain people. These people are the ones who know that's just the way I am and it's not because I'm cold or uninterested, which is how I come across to some people. Don't worry, there's someone out there for most people.:)
Is it normal To Feel Like You Can Never Be Close To Someone?
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I don't think this necessarily means you'll have a problem with getting close to someone, maybe just some people. I'm very similar to you, but it's never been a major problem for me. I still feel very close to certain people. I can't be like that with everyone, though, because it does feel intrusive to me when people are clingy. I don't like feeling like I don't have any freedom or independence, it makes me very uncomfortable. I don't think we're the only ones either.
Although I love things like hugs, I tend to keep to myself, and it usually just happens to me, if that makes any sense. I try not to worry too much about this, and I don't think you should either. It is possible to be close with people, which I know for a fact because I am close with certain people. These people are the ones who know that's just the way I am and it's not because I'm cold or uninterested, which is how I come across to some people. Don't worry, there's someone out there for most people.:)
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Thanks for the reassurance, friend. :)I knew there were other people like me out there.