I know how you feel. I too lost my best friend in the world, my brother, my twin. Its been months, i kept my feelings bottled up for a long time until recently. i didnt seek help because my twin was the only one i was really close to. i didnt see an expert like a therapist or counsellor because i thought i can handle it by myself, but the truth is most of the time i didnt like to think about it. So i got sick physically and diagnosed with ptsd because i didnt deal with the emotional pain. And TRUST me, you dont want this. Yes if you dont deal with emotional pain, it can affect you physically. The first 3 didnt really help me until i ment my 4th person who really understood how i felt. So i aint no expert just someone who knows how you feel, so msg me and dont keep it in like i did. If you need to talk to someone im here. and i Highly highhhly recommend to see an expert about this maybe the same person who helped me Tremendously. Talk about how you feel, dont be afraid to cry. And i will say this again because i cant express how important it is to talk about your feelings especially to an expert who understands how to deal with this. tho Not all experts will help, or truly truulllyyy understand what your going through. But try, dont be afraid. I want to help if i can.
I am so sorry to hear about your brother. I know it is the worst feeling you could ever feel. Kind of like coming down...down so far that you feel you've lost yourself as well. Which is true..I lost the girl I used to be and that everyone knew me as. But I had strength that I never possessed before. Id felt the greatest pain known, losing that one person who knew you better than anyone in the world. I don't think a therapist or councellor could ever understand that kind of pain without going through it themselves. I would much rather discuss my feelings, my deepest thoughts, to someone who could relate. Would you really like to talk about it with me? Maybe we can both help eachother if we could talk about it.
Is it normal to feel like this after losing a loved one?
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I know how you feel. I too lost my best friend in the world, my brother, my twin. Its been months, i kept my feelings bottled up for a long time until recently. i didnt seek help because my twin was the only one i was really close to. i didnt see an expert like a therapist or counsellor because i thought i can handle it by myself, but the truth is most of the time i didnt like to think about it. So i got sick physically and diagnosed with ptsd because i didnt deal with the emotional pain. And TRUST me, you dont want this. Yes if you dont deal with emotional pain, it can affect you physically. The first 3 didnt really help me until i ment my 4th person who really understood how i felt. So i aint no expert just someone who knows how you feel, so msg me and dont keep it in like i did. If you need to talk to someone im here. and i Highly highhhly recommend to see an expert about this maybe the same person who helped me Tremendously. Talk about how you feel, dont be afraid to cry. And i will say this again because i cant express how important it is to talk about your feelings especially to an expert who understands how to deal with this. tho Not all experts will help, or truly truulllyyy understand what your going through. But try, dont be afraid. I want to help if i can.
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I am so sorry to hear about your brother. I know it is the worst feeling you could ever feel. Kind of like coming down...down so far that you feel you've lost yourself as well. Which is true..I lost the girl I used to be and that everyone knew me as. But I had strength that I never possessed before. Id felt the greatest pain known, losing that one person who knew you better than anyone in the world. I don't think a therapist or councellor could ever understand that kind of pain without going through it themselves. I would much rather discuss my feelings, my deepest thoughts, to someone who could relate. Would you really like to talk about it with me? Maybe we can both help eachother if we could talk about it.