Is it normal to feel like my gf is soo lame?

I've been with my gf for quite sometime. Since high school to be exact and we are now sophmore in college. She hates partying, drinking clubbing, sex, hangin' out with my friends (female and male) or anything of that nature. She makes me feel like we are a married couple and I feel like I've missed out on life plenty and am missing out even more now because she attempts to control every single asoect of my life. Is it normal to feel like I need to dump her lameass and live it up and meet new people?

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Comments ( 19 )
  • ewwbooger

    She sounds like my grandma.

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  • komay

    Your done. Get out.

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  • LaBellesima

    Everyone here is saying shes a grandma and all that, but the two of you just arent COMPATIBLE.

    Maybe you do like partying all that loud stuff, but she doesnt. MAybe her idea of fun is doing other things. What does she do for fun? Hobbies?

    I will relate to her because an exboyfriend of mine would want me to hang out with his drunk wild friends, and thats all they did every weekend, get drunk stupid, and they would always try to harass or hit on me. I absolutely hated it. In the end we broke up and it was for the better. we just werent compatible

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  • Lady.Pam

    She wants more attention.. Really, if you want the girl you fell for back just be with her and only her more. Make her feel most important and she'll relax

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  • NikkiLynn1876

    You two arent for each other, dump her.

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  • Bluberri25

    It is very normal.. She does seem pretty boring. Sounds like a Mormon. Talk to her that you want more life and fun. The things that's most obnoxious is that she doesn't like hanging out with your Friends. If things don't work out soon, dump her. It's not worth being unhappy for one (apparently) lame girl. There are plenty of others that are more your type.
    Good luck! :)

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  • LoveYouBabe

    It sounds like she wants to be more serious with you.

    If you think she is lame talk to her first about it, if nothing changes tell her bye.

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  • Dump her.

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  • x6tence

    u guys dont fit no more,havin diff interests sure,but not that kinda thing,that
    usually maintains a relationship,
    she seems like the srs forever together type who u cant be arsed to be with no longer

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  • sassiecassie

    Get the hell out of that boring realationship! I'm married and have a kid and my hubby and I still go out and have fun on the weekends!

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  • grumpybarbie

    It's over

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  • Marlo

    Thanks for the comments you all. It is also very hard to move on when there is no one I can move on with, which makes it alot harder. Ex. Someone better that likes to do all the same things I do...?

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  • cbt729

    If you stay in the relationship you're going to end up resenting her. You'll break up eventually over that. It would be better for both of you if you let her go now and not later.

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  • momaholic7150

    Sounds like ur hangin with an old lady

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  • girl.nxt.dr_1985

    There's some reliable input in the above comments. Your story indicates your done with her anyway. Referring to her as a lameass and such. What is plain to see is that you two have completely different preferrences. A: you comply and stay, it could lead to you resenting her later for holding you back OR she could see that you made a sacrifice to stay with her and you could be thus rewarded. B: you leave and find someone you are more compatible with and don't look back. Good luck!

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  • flipfyre

    Talk about ur issues w/ her before making any harsh decisions. She may still be lame, but at least leave the opportunity to work it out.

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  • Ayumi

    Hm it's normal to feel that way. She does'nt sound like a very fun person to hang around. (well except for the sex part. If she's not ready, then there's nothing to be done. But I don't know the full story.) Yea you should probably leave her. Find someone you can have fun with. But break it to her gently! You don't wanna get cut.

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  • mmr138

    You're obviously over it. You'll probably be much happier without her. Go have fun!

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  • She sounds like someone you shouldn't be dating. More than likely she is bored with the relationship too. Break up. I bet in a month or so she will be hitting those clubs.

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