Is it normal to feel like im easily forgotten?

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All my life I can't help but feel like I drift in and out of peoples
Lifes and seem to not leave any impression, which I don't understand as at the time I've spent with these people theyve laughed at my jokes tell me there deepest darkest secrets but when the year at school college or work comes to an end I try to stay in contact and they seem so uninterested in knowing me anymore I know I'm not invisible as at the times I'm quite the opposite, should I change myself to be more rememberable I wonder...

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    told you their deepest darkest secrets, sometimes when people open up during a dark time in their life when they get thru it and are happy again they dont want to be reminded that they were unhappy, thats my theory, also try and keep it light with your friends ,if they are not there for you in your times of need you dont need to hear their troubles

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    • bubbles93
      11 years ago | pl

      Thats a really good point Splashy now that i recall maybe im too loyal to people who give little back to me, I dont recall any these people helping me through an as tough time as they where having....
      Thanks for the advice :)

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  • anti-hero
    11 years ago | pl

    Who are you again?

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  • -VampireGirl-
    10 years ago | pl

    I am like that all the way. I just forget about it. Maybe you should try. :D p.s: Dont feel left out...

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    • bubbles93
      10 years ago | pl

      I have learned over the years how to forget but at the same time i know im a good person and a loyal friend, maybe i just feel dissapointed in them for not being the true friend they thought they where... I think its important though that we always remember that we are just as important and its there loss if they choose to walk away cause i know i would have been there for them through thick and thin, Just one of the things we all go through (some more than others)

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  • Bonnabell
    11 years ago | pl

    I am too. I am always the one the buddy leaves when they get a new trade up.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    I will always remember you bubbles93. *clicks +Favorite*

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  • howaminotmyself
    11 years ago | pl

    Don't change yourself. I'm sure you leave more of an impression than you are aware of.

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    • bubbles93
      11 years ago | pl

      I try not to but i guess where only human and question alot if the problem is at our side, but i know really that you are right :)

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