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if someone tells me why they didn't call me back or why they couldn't hang I out or something like that I think they are lying to me. it could be anyone it doesnt matter who I just always think they are lying. is this normal?
I think this is normal to a degree. Did you have past trauma with someone who lied to you or betrayed you? Maybe that's the answer to why you feel this way. Some things are affected for different reasons, you just need to find out what's causing your suspicions about other people.
Hi,
It kind of sounds like you don't have a lot of self confidence or confidence in others.
Did you used to question or tell people you don't believe them? If so they have a reason not to tell the truth. They don't owe you an explanation at all. Sometimes things come up. Maybe they don't want to be questioned to death.
Also they actually could be telling the truth. Maybe they just aren't in the mood do do something with anyone, not just you.
You sound insecure, but also a little selfish. I used to be one of those people that no matter what wouldn't lie.
People sometimes don't need to know"the truth, the whole truth , nothing but the truth!"
And you have never lied in your life?
Maybe it's time for you to get out on your own and meet more people, do different things. Then maybe you wouldn't obscess on what others are/aren't doing.