Is it normal to feel like i need a girlfriend

Don't get me wrong, I don't need anything but I feel like having a girlfriend would keep me off of drugs, keep me from thinking about sex too much and would motivate me to work hard.

I think just having a girlfriend that looks up to me would inspire me to be a better person, its like she would be my sober half.

If I get a girlfriend I would stop thinking about women so much in a sexual, superficial way because I will already have fulfilled my lower desires and now I could focus on developing my self. Is this normal thinking?

Is It Normal?
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  • sounds like a good idea

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  • No. In fact, she would simply... RUIN YOUR LIFE! Women are broken toys and old pizza. Don't waste your time.

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    • she would DEF ruin this guy in particular's life. sounds like he's not feeling so good about life in general and when that happens a girl is the LAST thing you need.

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      • Sir:

        That's probably true but IDK

        like a child that does not

        know that the stove is hot

        until he touches it. You can

        warn him all you want but he

        will still touch the stove.

        If it don't work out then I'm not gonna be bothered.

        But I feel like it will kill my ego ("ruin my life") and that is what I want.

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        • Well said.

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  • I think your plan fits well with the Maslow hierarchy.

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  • Don't just accept any girlfriend you end up with. Find the one for you.

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    • Thats what I am doing.

      I will have three girlfriends in my life in which I need to find:

      My first girlfriend will subdue my teenage horniess and sexual frustration. After 7 months of fooling around I will have been used to sex and won't crave it alot.

      My second girlfriend would be the one to train me for having a wife. She doesn't know she is training me though. I will have to find a girlfriend that I can play a relationship. I'll be the man and she will be the woman.

      My last girlfriend will have come into my life from having experience with two girlfriends; sexual and social experience, I will get the wife I want.

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  • r u addicted to jacking off to porn?

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  • Desperate much?

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    • Peace:

      It may seem that way but

      it is not. Please ignore

      the ego for one second

      as I am doing.

      I am naturally a lover, and I figure that I would be good at loving a woman but I have never done it before. Plus I need to release tension and that is what a woman is good for.

      Peace

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  • You really should do all of those things for yourself instead of someone else. But I know what you me; she could maybe be your motivation.

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  • Thats a lot of pressure on her, isnt it? Jw

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    • Not really I'm the one that is doing all of the work and she won't know her role.

      She will only be the causative agent but my experiment cannot work without her.

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