Your life sounds like mine. the only thing that i can truly tell you is that you need to stand up for yourself, because trust me this will continue. It took me a while and the lost of a friendship between me and my second eldest sister to finally stand up for myself, so if i were you i would cut all of their reliable ties before its too late, because i dont want you to end up like me. I've always been the one to give the rides, clean the house, cook the dinners, baby sit the kids, clean the car, work over time, pay the bills, lend out the money and trust me it sucked. Because as much as they rely on you trust me when you need them they're not going to be around or they're going to make excuses for why it is that they can't help you. What i had to learn about myself is that the way I was allowing people to treat me, was the way that i felt about myself. I didn't quite understand self respect and self worth. You have to love yourself enough to not allow people to use and abuse your love for them, because people can be quite vindictive and manipulative. I wish you the best, and remember love yourself first before you can ever love someone else. And always make sure that you're completely stable and happy with where you are in your life before you try to fix someone else's problems.
Is it normal to feel like I'm being used by everyone
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Your life sounds like mine. the only thing that i can truly tell you is that you need to stand up for yourself, because trust me this will continue. It took me a while and the lost of a friendship between me and my second eldest sister to finally stand up for myself, so if i were you i would cut all of their reliable ties before its too late, because i dont want you to end up like me. I've always been the one to give the rides, clean the house, cook the dinners, baby sit the kids, clean the car, work over time, pay the bills, lend out the money and trust me it sucked. Because as much as they rely on you trust me when you need them they're not going to be around or they're going to make excuses for why it is that they can't help you. What i had to learn about myself is that the way I was allowing people to treat me, was the way that i felt about myself. I didn't quite understand self respect and self worth. You have to love yourself enough to not allow people to use and abuse your love for them, because people can be quite vindictive and manipulative. I wish you the best, and remember love yourself first before you can ever love someone else. And always make sure that you're completely stable and happy with where you are in your life before you try to fix someone else's problems.