COMPLETELY TOTALLY NORMAL! you're fine, your better than fine. it's not aspergers or social akwardness in my opinion. Small talk bores you because small talk is BORING, it sucks. What really bothers you, i'm speculating, is there are so many real things out there to talk about. You don't have close relationships by just small talk, it's about authenticity. Begin seeking out authentic friends who you find interesting.
You are right, I don't even bother engaging in conversation that I know will bore me. At work I sit as far away from the other staff to avoid this "small talk" being aimed at me. There are few people I acterly talk to, most of whom other people find crazy as not on same wavelength as them.
is it normal to feel like I don't belong to the human race?
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COMPLETELY TOTALLY NORMAL! you're fine, your better than fine. it's not aspergers or social akwardness in my opinion. Small talk bores you because small talk is BORING, it sucks. What really bothers you, i'm speculating, is there are so many real things out there to talk about. You don't have close relationships by just small talk, it's about authenticity. Begin seeking out authentic friends who you find interesting.
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You are right, I don't even bother engaging in conversation that I know will bore me. At work I sit as far away from the other staff to avoid this "small talk" being aimed at me. There are few people I acterly talk to, most of whom other people find crazy as not on same wavelength as them.