I can relate to that. I moved to the UK from Eastern Europe, and I also had great results in Maths, including olympiads, so I thought the western world can offer me more opportunities.
I feel lonely here, too, but this is because I decided to. I am tired of snowflakes yelling at me and calling me racist and all that liberal shit they do. So I decided that I do not want any friends and I do not talk to them anymore. I don't talk to my flatmates or to people at school. I also don't talk to people of my own nationality, since I don't like their company either. I just have a chinese friend and I spend some time with him.
Since I am at university, I decided I want to dedicate all my time to studying, so I do this all day, with no socialising and partying or whatever, since this is not actually fun, when surrounded by a bunch of liberal degenerates who are oppressed at any corner. I don't miss my own country since I was lonely there, too, living alone for years, without having a family or someome close to spend time with. So I did the same thing, I just studied and studied all the time and I got great results.
Whenever I feel lonely, I just find an occupation that will allow me to make the most out of my experience, and studying is the best thing to do at this stage. I cannot tell whether this will help you, but it certainly helped me, and we are quite similar.
Also, I had trouble with English, but now I solved this problem (mostly) focusing on grammar and vocabulary. I used forums like this to talk and use my language, instead of talking to people at school/uni, which was incredibly boring given their common topics about being offended by everything. I mean, I really thought it's just a joke and people exaggerate it to make it look silly and funny, but it's true. People really are that brainwashed.
I strongly advice you to avoid contact with people you dislike. Feeling lonely is normal, but trying to solve this by spending time with people you really don't enjoy is not, and it's a bad idea. It won't solve the problem, it will make it worse. Don't trust people saying: "Go out, socialize, make friends, bla bla". That is the most general advice that shows no actual interest in solving your problem. Only you can tell what you should do.
You can get yourself a nickname and spend time on a website with a virtual community, preferrably remaining anonymous and spending time with them, having common interests. Another thing you might do is to find people like you in there, but definitely avoid people you don't like, and most certainly avoid having conflicts with them, because you can even get deported from stupid arguments. When you disagree with them, just stop it, say "ok" and get out of there. It's time for you to leave, this proof is enough to understand that they are wasting your time. It is very important for you to learn from this mistake, and the lesson is that people like that are to be avoided. Even if they try to convince you to communicate again, just reject politely and stay away from this kind of conflicts.
I suggest spending your spare time with different interesting activities: read books, do sports, take online courses, stay on AoPS since you're into Maths (hope to see you there), etc.
Do NOT let a group of people influence you and your future or affect you and your life decisions. People who want to interfere with you or to criticize you are everywhere, regardless of the country or the language or opinions or anything else. Be wise and avoid them completely.
You shouldn't hate your accent. When your confidence decreases, it means you are in the wrong group of people. For example I personally enjoy spending time with foreigners, since we have more things in common, and a strong accent makes me identify them easily and somehow I am prone to communicate with them. There are people who would enjoy spending time with you, but you don't know it. When you are not confident in yourself, the first thing to do is to question the group of people you spend time with, or you try to integrate into. They have a strong impact on you. The wrong group, such as an American group, can always make you feel bad for being so different, while a group of Russians might make you feel a lot better about yourself, since you have a sense of belonging.
By the way, Twitter is now the new weapon of fancy boys. They don't throw punches anymore, they make Twitter posts. It's their safe space. If they get attacked, they can defend themselves with the power of Twitter likes and comments. Just fucking let them stay in their own world. Also, I would totally enjoy having a drink with a Russian guy here, so you should look somewhere else to find appreciation and joy. Your mistake is not moving to America, your mistake is wasting time with some particular Americans that many people dislike, such as SJWs (whatever that means, I just heard this abbreviation on the internet).
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I can relate to that. I moved to the UK from Eastern Europe, and I also had great results in Maths, including olympiads, so I thought the western world can offer me more opportunities.
I feel lonely here, too, but this is because I decided to. I am tired of snowflakes yelling at me and calling me racist and all that liberal shit they do. So I decided that I do not want any friends and I do not talk to them anymore. I don't talk to my flatmates or to people at school. I also don't talk to people of my own nationality, since I don't like their company either. I just have a chinese friend and I spend some time with him.
Since I am at university, I decided I want to dedicate all my time to studying, so I do this all day, with no socialising and partying or whatever, since this is not actually fun, when surrounded by a bunch of liberal degenerates who are oppressed at any corner. I don't miss my own country since I was lonely there, too, living alone for years, without having a family or someome close to spend time with. So I did the same thing, I just studied and studied all the time and I got great results.
Whenever I feel lonely, I just find an occupation that will allow me to make the most out of my experience, and studying is the best thing to do at this stage. I cannot tell whether this will help you, but it certainly helped me, and we are quite similar.
Also, I had trouble with English, but now I solved this problem (mostly) focusing on grammar and vocabulary. I used forums like this to talk and use my language, instead of talking to people at school/uni, which was incredibly boring given their common topics about being offended by everything. I mean, I really thought it's just a joke and people exaggerate it to make it look silly and funny, but it's true. People really are that brainwashed.
I strongly advice you to avoid contact with people you dislike. Feeling lonely is normal, but trying to solve this by spending time with people you really don't enjoy is not, and it's a bad idea. It won't solve the problem, it will make it worse. Don't trust people saying: "Go out, socialize, make friends, bla bla". That is the most general advice that shows no actual interest in solving your problem. Only you can tell what you should do.
You can get yourself a nickname and spend time on a website with a virtual community, preferrably remaining anonymous and spending time with them, having common interests. Another thing you might do is to find people like you in there, but definitely avoid people you don't like, and most certainly avoid having conflicts with them, because you can even get deported from stupid arguments. When you disagree with them, just stop it, say "ok" and get out of there. It's time for you to leave, this proof is enough to understand that they are wasting your time. It is very important for you to learn from this mistake, and the lesson is that people like that are to be avoided. Even if they try to convince you to communicate again, just reject politely and stay away from this kind of conflicts.
I suggest spending your spare time with different interesting activities: read books, do sports, take online courses, stay on AoPS since you're into Maths (hope to see you there), etc.
Do NOT let a group of people influence you and your future or affect you and your life decisions. People who want to interfere with you or to criticize you are everywhere, regardless of the country or the language or opinions or anything else. Be wise and avoid them completely.
You shouldn't hate your accent. When your confidence decreases, it means you are in the wrong group of people. For example I personally enjoy spending time with foreigners, since we have more things in common, and a strong accent makes me identify them easily and somehow I am prone to communicate with them. There are people who would enjoy spending time with you, but you don't know it. When you are not confident in yourself, the first thing to do is to question the group of people you spend time with, or you try to integrate into. They have a strong impact on you. The wrong group, such as an American group, can always make you feel bad for being so different, while a group of Russians might make you feel a lot better about yourself, since you have a sense of belonging.
By the way, Twitter is now the new weapon of fancy boys. They don't throw punches anymore, they make Twitter posts. It's their safe space. If they get attacked, they can defend themselves with the power of Twitter likes and comments. Just fucking let them stay in their own world. Also, I would totally enjoy having a drink with a Russian guy here, so you should look somewhere else to find appreciation and joy. Your mistake is not moving to America, your mistake is wasting time with some particular Americans that many people dislike, such as SJWs (whatever that means, I just heard this abbreviation on the internet).
Peace out.