I've felt this way before. There's this one guy from my work who I always get nervous around whenever I see him. He's really cute, but I get the sense that he thinks I'm a bimbo. I said some pretty dumb things while in his company. Yet, I noticed how he kinda just disappeared one day. I feel like he avoids me like the plague now. I honestly haven't seen the guy in months.
In your case, maybe the guy you speak of is already seeing someone. Or it could just be paranoia. When you really like a guy, you sometimes worry that he doesn't like you back, so you read into every situation you have with him. Every little thing he does, every move he makes, you look into. You always think that theres something to decipher in his words. But in reality, theres nothing behind what hes saying. You're just letting your mind take you away.
When you're finally finished reading into things, you have a shit load of reasons why you think he doesn't like you. Its normal. You could be turning a normal scene where he really couldn't care less, into something bigger than it really is. It can go both ways, really. You could think he hates you when he doesn't, or you could think he absolutely adores you when he just sees you as anybody else. Its gonna eat you inside if you think too hard into it.
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I've felt this way before. There's this one guy from my work who I always get nervous around whenever I see him. He's really cute, but I get the sense that he thinks I'm a bimbo. I said some pretty dumb things while in his company. Yet, I noticed how he kinda just disappeared one day. I feel like he avoids me like the plague now. I honestly haven't seen the guy in months.
In your case, maybe the guy you speak of is already seeing someone. Or it could just be paranoia. When you really like a guy, you sometimes worry that he doesn't like you back, so you read into every situation you have with him. Every little thing he does, every move he makes, you look into. You always think that theres something to decipher in his words. But in reality, theres nothing behind what hes saying. You're just letting your mind take you away.
When you're finally finished reading into things, you have a shit load of reasons why you think he doesn't like you. Its normal. You could be turning a normal scene where he really couldn't care less, into something bigger than it really is. It can go both ways, really. You could think he hates you when he doesn't, or you could think he absolutely adores you when he just sees you as anybody else. Its gonna eat you inside if you think too hard into it.