A lot of people feel this way but at the same time it's not really healthy. I've noticed both on this website and in my own relations with people that insecurity and jealousy tend to fuel most relationships far more than they really should. For one, you don't need to say yes to sex every time, you two should be approaching intimacy from an equal plane rather than this imbalance that you're implying. Judging by the sound of things he probably doesn't even know that this is an issue for you.
But *almost* everyone is going to want to fap sometimes. The porn is just a visual aid to achieve said goal. As for going to strip clubs, so what? That's a pretty common experience and it's not like he's going with the intention of taking one of these girls home. Hell, why not go to the strip club with him? It's kinda fun and kinda funny at the same time.
Honestly I've read about a lot of guys doing a lot worse, and if this is the only problem you've encountered in your marriage in 13 years then you're doing better than a loot of other people.
Is it normal to feel like a crazy insecure wife??
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A lot of people feel this way but at the same time it's not really healthy. I've noticed both on this website and in my own relations with people that insecurity and jealousy tend to fuel most relationships far more than they really should. For one, you don't need to say yes to sex every time, you two should be approaching intimacy from an equal plane rather than this imbalance that you're implying. Judging by the sound of things he probably doesn't even know that this is an issue for you.
But *almost* everyone is going to want to fap sometimes. The porn is just a visual aid to achieve said goal. As for going to strip clubs, so what? That's a pretty common experience and it's not like he's going with the intention of taking one of these girls home. Hell, why not go to the strip club with him? It's kinda fun and kinda funny at the same time.
Honestly I've read about a lot of guys doing a lot worse, and if this is the only problem you've encountered in your marriage in 13 years then you're doing better than a loot of other people.