I agree. Get yourself involved. I've always gotten along very well with my hot older sister, and, we do share many things. Have dated women who were intimidated by that, and said things like "She's so hot..I can't compete with her", and "Wish I got along with my sister/brother like you do with her..You guys are something". Only one really confronted me about it, on the way back from a family function. It was a hot day and older sister did wear sexy, short shorts and a tight, low-cut tank top, and was in a fun, touchy-feely mood, so sometimes was very hands-on with me, causing a few looks.
About 10 minutes into the ride home, woman I was dating mentions my hot sister's mode of attire. "Boy, she was popping out all over, wasn't she? You didn't seem to mind" a bit accusational. Told her my sister likes being comfy at home, and is just the hands-on type, brushing it off. Then she hits me with "I'm left out when SHE'S around..Like she turns you on more than I do..It's like she likes stealing you from me and wants you for herself".
I tried easing the situation, but the woman continued, asking if I'd had sex with her, we can break up b/c she's obviously better..Much as I tried, she wasn't convinced that this is just how we get along, and, that's not going to change. In fact, as Summer is the busy season for gatherings, and she/sister does like to be comfy and show her body..Get used to seeing her and how we joke around, or, be gone. Basically, get yourself involved, or be number 2.
Is it normal to feel left out by my boyfriend and his sister?
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I agree. Get yourself involved. I've always gotten along very well with my hot older sister, and, we do share many things. Have dated women who were intimidated by that, and said things like "She's so hot..I can't compete with her", and "Wish I got along with my sister/brother like you do with her..You guys are something". Only one really confronted me about it, on the way back from a family function. It was a hot day and older sister did wear sexy, short shorts and a tight, low-cut tank top, and was in a fun, touchy-feely mood, so sometimes was very hands-on with me, causing a few looks.
About 10 minutes into the ride home, woman I was dating mentions my hot sister's mode of attire. "Boy, she was popping out all over, wasn't she? You didn't seem to mind" a bit accusational. Told her my sister likes being comfy at home, and is just the hands-on type, brushing it off. Then she hits me with "I'm left out when SHE'S around..Like she turns you on more than I do..It's like she likes stealing you from me and wants you for herself".
I tried easing the situation, but the woman continued, asking if I'd had sex with her, we can break up b/c she's obviously better..Much as I tried, she wasn't convinced that this is just how we get along, and, that's not going to change. In fact, as Summer is the busy season for gatherings, and she/sister does like to be comfy and show her body..Get used to seeing her and how we joke around, or, be gone. Basically, get yourself involved, or be number 2.