Is it normal to feel left out?

Mu boyfriend is always talking to other girls and i dont no what to do. They all have these inside jokes that they won't tell me and and my boyfriends girl friends dob't like me. Plus i'm leaving next year so i think he's distancing cuz of that. Is it normal for that to happen? Anyone have any tips?

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  • mailbox

    It's easy to say that you should just dump him but I know that would be painful since he's like an investment... that you want to keep.

    Since you're going away, I bet once you leave... he's going to stray farther away and into the arms of other girls.

    I would take his little inside jokes with other chicks as a sign that your relationship is going in the wrong direction.

    Your boyfriend is not acting like a good boyfriend should.

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  • fancyj

    Dump him and fond someone else that you don't have to worry about. If he really cared about you he wouldn't act like that.

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  • Ratso

    Yuck. Not worth it girl. U did the right thing

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    • Antir0b0t

      No wonder you guys have bad relationships. Get revenge? Whoa. If you really loved someone you wouldn't want to do Anything that could hurt them. I was going to type a lot more but it's a lost cause. lmao.

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  • Yeah. I dumped my bf, wohoooo! And guess what? He went to the movies with that girl I hear stuff about.

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  • Ratso

    Guy friends are always nice to have

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  • Nope :) haha. I think me and this dude are better as friends anyways though.

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  • Ratso

    Hahahaha that's awesome! Does ur bf know???

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  • Haha oh well I'm glad! Hope it works out with y'all ;) and just went to the movies with the other guy tonight. Hahahahaha.

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  • Ratso

    Thanks for all ur help
    I moved on and now im dating an old ex
    Just for the summer lol

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  • Awe, well thanks for all your help & your right. :)

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  • Ratso

    Good luck sweetheart! Hope it all works out.
    Remember nobody is worth ur tears an the one who is wont make u cry

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  • Haha. Alright. :D

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  • Ratso

    Go for it

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  • Well I did meet this guy and we've talked alot so who knows.

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  • Ratso

    Go ahead
    I mean after the way he treated u
    U deserve alil satisfactory revenge
    Got any ideas how?

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  • Haha I know. I kinda wanna do the same to him for payback. Good idea or no?

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  • Ratso

    Thats good
    Boys can get so annyoing sometimes (no offence to guys)

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  • Haha okay were cool now. Haha :)

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  • Ratso

    Ill be here lol

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  • Hahah thanks for the advice. I'll see how it goes and tell you about it :)

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  • Ratso

    Say u do trust him but the move is stressing u out and ur afraid to break up and i totally no the feeling my ex is currently dating the girl he was flirting with and i hate her cuz haha she hates me
    But tell her off. He's your man and if she thinks she can come bewteen u to 1 others will and 2 she needs to be knocked down into her place

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  • I told my boyfriend offf and he gets mad because I believe other people over him. And he said I should be able to trust him. And I would confront the girl but we hate each other with a passion.

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  • Ratso

    Then try and tell her to back off ur man
    She has no right to be a boyfriend stealer
    And if she wont apologize and stop then u need to tell her an ur bf off

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  • I confronted him just now when we got done hangin out cause I had his phone and she texted him but I didn't read it. He said he hasn't talked to her in a month. But she's obsessed with him.... Ugh.

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  • Ratso

    I no u love him.
    But kick him to the curb!
    Or confront him.....

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  • That when I move they will start dating and that he sweet talks her.

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  • Ratso

    Aw well what have u heard?

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  • Yeah now I heard about that girl and him again today.... Great.

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  • Ratso

    Well we both had the same problem

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  • Yeah funny how we've chatted on here for like a month? Haha..

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  • Ratso

    Yeah........

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  • Awe :(

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  • Moooove on. If a guy is in a relationship he shouldn't be close friends with other chicks. Same goes for girls shouldn't be close friends with any guys.

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  • Ratso

    Sad, very sad

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  • Are you sad or happy?

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  • Ratso

    Well he dumped me! Yay! *sob sob*

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  • Ratso

    Well it could be worse
    Im just bein there for him if he needs me

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  • Oh well that's goood.

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  • Ratso

    And hes ok insensitive and clueless as always

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  • Ratso

    Thanls shesamystery

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  • He's good. Yours?

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  • haha.

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  • Ratso

    Yep
    Well hows ur bf doing?

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  • Hahaha, sounds like a lot in common.

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  • Ratso

    Somewhat? U sound like me lol

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  • That's my plan, it's tough cause I trust both of them somewhat.

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  • Ratso

    Same to u amd with your situation im sry i have no clue what to do. You shouldnt have to pick urbf ovr ur friends or vise versa thats just mean. Watch him though c how he acts, maybe ull get a clue

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  • Wow, sounds the same with my situation! Except I've been hearing he's cheating on me. You just have to prove to him that he's your only one. Cause idk who to believe my friends or him. & hope everything works out with y'all!

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  • Ratso

    Well we really talked today, turnsbout ppl have been saying i cheated on him. Nice friends i have! We talked and i think, i hope everythings good now

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  • Don't let him push you around girl.

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  • Ratso

    Yeah i no
    Idk whats wrong with me, usually i am no where near this timid. i guess he just has that effect on me.

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  • But he won't stay angry for long, you just have to confront him.

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  • Ratso

    Im just afraid to have him angry me

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  • Ratso

    Yeah i no..... Its so annoying that i can barely talk to him

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  • Oh haha not the same boyfriend then. And don't be afraid to show him whose boss, you have a right to know. And if he can't except it then he ain't worth it.

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  • Ratso

    High school u?
    Ha I'm to scared to fight with him. I'm literally his doormat, i cant help it......
    Any advice??????

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  • Haha hope not! Just got done fighting with mine! What grade are y'all in?

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  • Ratso

    Same here..... Haha u sure our guys arent the same person?

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  • Wow, that's rude of him. and I would dump him but I love him soooo much and he was my first kiss and everything. But thething is. I know he's playing me but I don't want to loose him.

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  • Ratso

    Dump him b4 he dumps you. Sadly thats all you can do...... My boyfriend has stopped paying attention to me all together and i gave him a hug today u no just cuz i was in the mood? And he said, i quote, "what was that about?" like he was mad

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  • I heard more stuff about him tellin some girl he's gonna dump me or her in July. Great. Idk what to do. Help?

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  • Ratso

    Same with me.....

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  • Well the thing is that, he's constantly talking to other girls. But he's in love with me & I know it. But it might just have to be over when I move because of trust issues.

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  • Ratso

    @ Cheer26
    I am soooo glad i am not alone! I h8 when my bf does that sooo much. He's nonpossesive to so thats alil annoying. And i talled to him about it he got angry and told me to let it go. Sometimes guys r useless creatures god made........ But yeah i think i am gonna dump him at the end of the year........not so sure yet though

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  • Ratso

    Yeah i know but the skool year ends in 20 days should i just hang in there till then?

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  • Oh my gosh. I'm in the EXACT situation! My boyfriend is always talking to other girls and expects me to not care. I'm moving in 2 months and he says he loves me and will stay with me but I think he might forget about me and move on to one of his girl friends.

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