Is it normal to feel jealous of gays sometimes?

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Specifically, homosexual males.

Just note that since I learned what the term "gay"/"homosexual" meant, I've supported it. I'm a girl and I've been straight, but I never once questioned of someone being "gay". Actually, in some short stories and poems I've written, they involve a male/male relationship. Rare there's a female/female, but still sometimes.

I guess it's because lately for whatever reason, in my town most/all of the guys are gay or bisexual. Now in my head, I just say every guy is gay or bisexual.

And I guess I don't blame them, I mean, with the feminine population these days I admit most of the girls are annoying, but it makes me feel sad, and like I have no chance because I'm a girl. I don't know if it's just where I live, so I decided to post online where this shit's worldwide.

Forgive me if this sounds like a stupid post, but I'm just very paranoid that eeeeevery guy is gay or bi. And yes, it makes me sad. I don't want to sound rude or cruel, and yes, I support almost every type of relationship whether it be hetero, homo, necro - almost whatever, but still. I mean, to be honest it just really saddens me and even frightens me. And since I'm a girl I guess it's safe for me to say, "Well, guys don't have to worry about a girl turning lesbian, it's not as common" - from where I live, at least.

So, is this normal? And forgive me if I sound like a bitch, this is just what I think.

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  • JenAus1217
    11 years ago | pl

    First of all I think you may want to reconsider if it is true that every guy in your town is homosexual or bisexual. Would it have been an illusion? Maybe you just know too many homosexual or bisexual guys, which makes you believe that every guy is the same. Since you say that you're straight, I think you should try to search for the straight guys in town, even though maybe the majority is homosexual or bisexual. I'm sorry that I don't think it's normal for you to be jealous of gay guys. I guess you're confused. And you should understand that there are tons of normal and nice guys outside your town, and they look for girls. I'm sure you'll finally meet one someday. You have chances!

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    • tentacleTherapist
      11 years ago | pl

      Yeah, that's the point. Most of my male friends are homosexual, so I know I'm just afraid of never finding a straight guy that I can fall in love with. It's simply just about me fearing I don't have any chances because I'm a girl. Thank you, I know I'm pretty confused ;;

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  • prefernoname
    11 years ago | pl

    where do you live?

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  • Riddler
    9 years ago | pl

    Stupid weebo = =.

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  • BluntsRolled
    11 years ago | pl

    Maybe your just ugly?

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  • Seustewart
    11 years ago | pl

    I wanna know where too. I wanna go to that town and get my dick sucked.

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    • [email protected]
      11 years ago | pl

      I'm not trying to offend anybody or any town but in my opinion every town or city has gays and lesbians.The only thing you'll have to do is want to hang out with them and you'll get your dick sucked on.

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  • EndlessSuffering
    11 years ago | pl

    First of all, not every guy is gay. Gays are a minority. And second of all you can't turn into a lesbian, it's not a chose you are born that way. And yes you do sound like a bitch, if you can't find a guy get your ass off the fucking chair. Thank you.

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  • tentacleTherapist
    11 years ago | pl

    Overreacting? Well excuse me, but from being surrounded by gays that are my friends, I just feel unloved because I'm a girl. And you don't want to be here, trust me. It's a small ghetto town where no one cares about anything.

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  • Fozmula
    11 years ago | pl

    1. hook up with two bi guys. I don't know why you haven't already done this.
    2. Be jealous of lesbians. Girls touch other girls' boobs spontaneously and it's not weird.

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    • tentacleTherapist
      11 years ago | pl

      Hook up with two bi guys? I'm looking for romance, not random sex. And I'm not jealous of lesbians, I have no desire to be with a girl.

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  • Jweezee
    11 years ago | pl

    How's the weather in San Fran?

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  • RinTin
    11 years ago | pl

    Well..I don't believe that guys are gay/bisexual because they think the female population is annoying..and I don't agree with you that most girls are annoying. Where did you get that from?? What makes you better than most girls? How do you know what everyone is like? I honestly don't believe most of the guys in your town are gay/bisexual but I guess I'd have to know where you live.

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    • tentacleTherapist
      11 years ago | pl

      Huh? I never ever said I was better than most girls. I meant that a lot of the girls in my area are insanely annoying, like the ones who dress like sluts and do weed just to get some guy in their pants. I hang out with the nerds, so from perspective they're a lot more intelligent.

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  • Seustewart
    11 years ago | pl

    nobleserpaent does kind of have a point.

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