To to OP, been there done that. The girl you were crushing on was probably insecure or doesn't notice looks the way you and I might. It's hit and miss, some people are discerning about such things others are not.
Maybe she wanted some fat dyke man-looking thing and you're a sexy lipstick lesbian so you might not be her type. I went to a lesbian club once with close friends and it was like being a kid in a candy store, so many beautiful girls.
However I saw some of the prettiest ones getting their faces sucked on by some fat bitches who looked like-and I am being very accurate and serious-nasty trucker drivers. I was dumbfounded. So many strange things going on in the world.
And for straight girls-I've seen many that I'd probably be too intimidated to approach, yet they were dating some of the ugliest men around-guys who looked like greasy computer nerds, others who looked like just got out of jail (of every race).
I don't know why some beautiful girls are impossible to get while others will date Quasimodo, but that's how life goes. Now I just go after what I want and I don't really care what others do.
I don't get the whole mannish dyke thing at all! I put a lot of effort into looking feminine and attractive when I go out. It makes me feel happy as an expression of who I am, and I like to think of clothes like paint and my body type and shape like the canvas, so outfits are a fun creative outlet for me...
I just totally admire feminine beauty and I guess I sometimes feel inadequate when a masculine woman appeals to someone I like, like "whats wrong with me being femme thats not good enough?"
I know looks arent everything of course but Im not so concerned with looking morally up on the high horse that I cant talk candidly about looks. Personality is of course the main deciding factor, but still... when the gorgeous lipstick girl who puts models to shame is hanging out with the biker chick with more facial hair than most dudes with a 5 oclock shadow... sometimes ya wonder
haha, I hear you. Ya I'll never understand the dyke thing either. I guess they want a man with a vagina-they could always go for a FTM transsexual. It seems like that a part of them is still very girlish who wants a man to take care of them but they are turned off by penises. We'll leave it up to the psychologists to figure that one out.
Like you I also really, really admire feminine beauty and if you happen to have won the genetic lottery, then consider yourself lucky. I respect women like yourself who put in time and effort to look good. Perhaps your attractiveness intimidates others? Either way thank your lucky stars and keep fishing-you'll no doubt find some beautiful girl who's in a similar boat.
While looks "aren't everything", they are still very important-at least to people like me. It may sound superficial but the fact is that I can't be with someone I'm not attracted to. It's usually ugly/ordinary people who push that view.
I want a girl who makes my pulse race when I see her, who makes me want to travel 1000 miles to be with her and who makes me feel vital and alive. It's hard to find girls like that but I'd rather wait than to settle with an average girl who doesn't excite me at all.
Certainly personality matters a lot too-hard to be with someone who's an idiot or is just plain weird in a not so cute way. Hey it's also Evolution, that is why tigers are terrifying and extremely beautiful at the same time. Nobody mated with the ugly ones and they died off. :P
IIN to feel jealous a fat girl got lucky when Im skinny and hot?
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To to OP, been there done that. The girl you were crushing on was probably insecure or doesn't notice looks the way you and I might. It's hit and miss, some people are discerning about such things others are not.
Maybe she wanted some fat dyke man-looking thing and you're a sexy lipstick lesbian so you might not be her type. I went to a lesbian club once with close friends and it was like being a kid in a candy store, so many beautiful girls.
However I saw some of the prettiest ones getting their faces sucked on by some fat bitches who looked like-and I am being very accurate and serious-nasty trucker drivers. I was dumbfounded. So many strange things going on in the world.
And for straight girls-I've seen many that I'd probably be too intimidated to approach, yet they were dating some of the ugliest men around-guys who looked like greasy computer nerds, others who looked like just got out of jail (of every race).
I don't know why some beautiful girls are impossible to get while others will date Quasimodo, but that's how life goes. Now I just go after what I want and I don't really care what others do.
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I don't get the whole mannish dyke thing at all! I put a lot of effort into looking feminine and attractive when I go out. It makes me feel happy as an expression of who I am, and I like to think of clothes like paint and my body type and shape like the canvas, so outfits are a fun creative outlet for me...
I just totally admire feminine beauty and I guess I sometimes feel inadequate when a masculine woman appeals to someone I like, like "whats wrong with me being femme thats not good enough?"
I know looks arent everything of course but Im not so concerned with looking morally up on the high horse that I cant talk candidly about looks. Personality is of course the main deciding factor, but still... when the gorgeous lipstick girl who puts models to shame is hanging out with the biker chick with more facial hair than most dudes with a 5 oclock shadow... sometimes ya wonder
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haha, I hear you. Ya I'll never understand the dyke thing either. I guess they want a man with a vagina-they could always go for a FTM transsexual. It seems like that a part of them is still very girlish who wants a man to take care of them but they are turned off by penises. We'll leave it up to the psychologists to figure that one out.
Like you I also really, really admire feminine beauty and if you happen to have won the genetic lottery, then consider yourself lucky. I respect women like yourself who put in time and effort to look good. Perhaps your attractiveness intimidates others? Either way thank your lucky stars and keep fishing-you'll no doubt find some beautiful girl who's in a similar boat.
While looks "aren't everything", they are still very important-at least to people like me. It may sound superficial but the fact is that I can't be with someone I'm not attracted to. It's usually ugly/ordinary people who push that view.
I want a girl who makes my pulse race when I see her, who makes me want to travel 1000 miles to be with her and who makes me feel vital and alive. It's hard to find girls like that but I'd rather wait than to settle with an average girl who doesn't excite me at all.
Certainly personality matters a lot too-hard to be with someone who's an idiot or is just plain weird in a not so cute way. Hey it's also Evolution, that is why tigers are terrifying and extremely beautiful at the same time. Nobody mated with the ugly ones and they died off. :P
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This whole comment made me feel really happy to read :) Thank you!
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Glad to know and you're welcome. It's what I do ma'am, spread joy, love and happiness wherever I go. hehe
Now I just need to find me a sexy and sweet girl to shower her with some of that goodness too. :D
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haha nice pic! c:
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thanks that's what I really look like. *grin*