It just so happens that narcissistic behavior is fucking hideous, despite how good-looking the person is. And let's not pretend but actually BE modest. Have you ever heard of Copernicus, Aristotle, or Einstein call themselves geniuses? "The fool thinks himself a genius, and the genius thinks himself a fool," goes the old saying.
There's a difference between hubris and acknowledging ones own strengths.
Ferociously hating such behavior to such an intense extreme is rather curious. I wonder what it is that makes you react like that to what you personally perceive to be narcissistic behavior?
Not everyone who points out that they're good looking or intelligent is truly displaying narcissism.
What makes me react to it in that way is the fact that it's an unattractive quality to have.
And there's a difference between "I think I'm attractive" and "I'M HOT!!" No, not everyone, but most people saying shit like the latter are, in fact, displaying narcissism.
Being around a person who says shit like "Yeah, I'm hot" makes the listener averted to and skeptical of whatever else the person may say. I'm not the only one who thinks this. Evidently if I was wrong I wouldn't have gotten any thumbs, not would have the other people here who called you cocky.
You're basing the entirety of your judgment (and there are PLENTY of things to say about those who cast judgment on others, in terms of "attractive personality traits") on a few sentences written online on an anonymous question site.
If you want a true definition of "cockiness" how about someone who is SO sure of themselves, they think they can completely identify, label, and accurately judge someone from a couple of sentences over the internet?
I'm physically attractive, so what? I should lie and pretend to ride the high horse and say that in life people don't notice things like looks and weight? Yeah, pretending the grass isn't green won't change that either.
I already admitted I'm not proud of having negative thoughts towards the large girl, but to pretend like those thoughts don't exist isn't cockiness, it's truthfulness. I only posted the question to find out if other people might have similar thoughts at times.
And I don't believe that you JUST think it's unattractive. You react WAY too strongly to not have "personal" written all over your hatred.
I don't give a fuck if you don't think I JUST think it's unattractive. What, you think I have had a bad experience or something? What kind of bad experience could possibly come from this? I just hate when people are cocky.
Stop getting so personally offended over all of this. I left one comment and many seemed to agree with me, please just accept this. If you think you're hot, good for you, just know that many upon many people will find you expressing this as cocky behavior.
You are not going to change my opinion. Give up. You can't win 'em all. I really do not give a fuck about what you think because you are literally just words on a screen for me and not a person. You can write me a novella about why you are right and I simply won't be bothered to care.
Before this turns into a sensitive and butthurt battle, I'm out. Because I don't give a shit. Here, you can have the last word.
IIN to feel jealous a fat girl got lucky when Im skinny and hot?
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God do I fucking hate when say "I'M HOT." Gain some modesty for Chrissake
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god forbid we ever offend ugly people by admitting we're attractive.
no let's all pretend we're "modest" and therefore part of the herd of average/unattractive people.
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It just so happens that narcissistic behavior is fucking hideous, despite how good-looking the person is. And let's not pretend but actually BE modest. Have you ever heard of Copernicus, Aristotle, or Einstein call themselves geniuses? "The fool thinks himself a genius, and the genius thinks himself a fool," goes the old saying.
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There's a difference between hubris and acknowledging ones own strengths.
Ferociously hating such behavior to such an intense extreme is rather curious. I wonder what it is that makes you react like that to what you personally perceive to be narcissistic behavior?
Not everyone who points out that they're good looking or intelligent is truly displaying narcissism.
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What makes me react to it in that way is the fact that it's an unattractive quality to have.
And there's a difference between "I think I'm attractive" and "I'M HOT!!" No, not everyone, but most people saying shit like the latter are, in fact, displaying narcissism.
Being around a person who says shit like "Yeah, I'm hot" makes the listener averted to and skeptical of whatever else the person may say. I'm not the only one who thinks this. Evidently if I was wrong I wouldn't have gotten any thumbs, not would have the other people here who called you cocky.
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You're basing the entirety of your judgment (and there are PLENTY of things to say about those who cast judgment on others, in terms of "attractive personality traits") on a few sentences written online on an anonymous question site.
If you want a true definition of "cockiness" how about someone who is SO sure of themselves, they think they can completely identify, label, and accurately judge someone from a couple of sentences over the internet?
I'm physically attractive, so what? I should lie and pretend to ride the high horse and say that in life people don't notice things like looks and weight? Yeah, pretending the grass isn't green won't change that either.
I already admitted I'm not proud of having negative thoughts towards the large girl, but to pretend like those thoughts don't exist isn't cockiness, it's truthfulness. I only posted the question to find out if other people might have similar thoughts at times.
And I don't believe that you JUST think it's unattractive. You react WAY too strongly to not have "personal" written all over your hatred.
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I don't give a fuck if you don't think I JUST think it's unattractive. What, you think I have had a bad experience or something? What kind of bad experience could possibly come from this? I just hate when people are cocky.
Stop getting so personally offended over all of this. I left one comment and many seemed to agree with me, please just accept this. If you think you're hot, good for you, just know that many upon many people will find you expressing this as cocky behavior.
You are not going to change my opinion. Give up. You can't win 'em all. I really do not give a fuck about what you think because you are literally just words on a screen for me and not a person. You can write me a novella about why you are right and I simply won't be bothered to care.
Before this turns into a sensitive and butthurt battle, I'm out. Because I don't give a shit. Here, you can have the last word.
P.S. You're still cocky