People do this all the time to justify themselves. People's true prejudices tend to come out when the deeper urges like love and sex are involved.
Someone I know got all bothered about a girl rejecting him in favour of someone else. What was bothering him most is that the guy she went with has a different colour of skin than him or the girl.
He's not overtly racist and he couldn't justify why he was feeling like he was. Regardless of someone's colour, or weight, or anything, really, they're still just a person.
Perhaps you're bothered because a core value of yours (that people who weigh more are less attractive) was challenged in the way it was.
I think some of what you say makes a lot of sense but its wrong to think that "people who weigh more are less attractive" is a "core value" of mine... its just something I think sometimes, doesnt everyone have thoughts like this pass through their mind sometimes?
I feel bad for thinking it and I admit Im jealous but it would be untruthful to pretend like I didnt think about it, even for a second.
IIN to feel jealous a fat girl got lucky when Im skinny and hot?
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People do this all the time to justify themselves. People's true prejudices tend to come out when the deeper urges like love and sex are involved.
Someone I know got all bothered about a girl rejecting him in favour of someone else. What was bothering him most is that the guy she went with has a different colour of skin than him or the girl.
He's not overtly racist and he couldn't justify why he was feeling like he was. Regardless of someone's colour, or weight, or anything, really, they're still just a person.
Perhaps you're bothered because a core value of yours (that people who weigh more are less attractive) was challenged in the way it was.
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I think some of what you say makes a lot of sense but its wrong to think that "people who weigh more are less attractive" is a "core value" of mine... its just something I think sometimes, doesnt everyone have thoughts like this pass through their mind sometimes?
I feel bad for thinking it and I admit Im jealous but it would be untruthful to pretend like I didnt think about it, even for a second.