Is it normal to feel ignored when....?

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I'm a straight male,and I have two best friends that are girls.I really love them and I trust them completely.My problem is I feel really aggravated/ignored when we don't hang out.What I mean is,we'll make plans,and then something will happen and then they have to cancel.This has happened well more than 25 times,sometimes with one of them,sometimes with both.They'll always have something come up or happen,and I know it's not their fault most of the time,but they made a promise to me about celebrating my birthday over a month ago,and it hasn't happened,and personally,I don't even think they remember making it.

Is it normal to feel that way?
Should I tell them how I feel?
Is there really anything I can do about it?

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  • JuliusE
    13 years ago | pl

    Honestly man, I think it would do you some good to find a good male best friend. Brotherhood is important.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    yeah tell them how you feel...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Im the same way. Because we are guts we get left out and miss opertunities like spendung the night and stuff. But i have just learned to except the fact and enjoy the time you have with them

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  • jsyk
    13 years ago | pl

    yeah, im a girl and if one of my friends felt upset or left out i'd hope they'd tell me and then i'd make sure to include them more, im sure theyre not doing it on purpose. good luck!

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  • Marshall_Mathers
    13 years ago | pl

    Aww dude, I'm sorry man, That sucks. Just tell 'em how ya feel, their girls, I'm sure they'll understand.

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  • strawberrygymnast
    12 years ago | pl

    Awwww man I'm sorry! I'm a girl, but I have to say I hate girls they can be SOOOO annoying and many girls treat people this way. I think you need to tell them because often times girls do this stuff all the time and don't realize they're hurting you. The same type of thing happened to me and I told them how I felt. Sure enough they didn't realize it and apologized like 50 times.

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