Is it normal to feel i will never find a person that makes me happy?

I try to be the best person i can be by having a sense of humor trying to dress and look good but i always feel like im never noticed by anyone and maybe i wont ever find that special someone that makes me happy ? Is it normal to have these feelings of self doubt ?

Is It Normal?
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  • Normal. All people have flaws, even your mr. Perfect will have flaws (you may not notice them right away).

    You have to be satisfied with yourself first, and only then will you be able to maintain healthy relationships. We should not expect perfections of others to fulfill us, but rather strive to develop perfections in ourselves. That is also the only way to be happy with other people.

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  • I think most people feel this way. Just have fun being yourself. Then one day, many years from now, you will look back and laugh at the insecurities you once had.

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  • Once you stop caring about it and having confidince things should get better. I know its a cliche but, love comes a the most unexpected times. Something minor can change the coarse of everything. I can say that because its exactly what happened to me. Idk if your religious or not but god has a plan for you, good luck bud.

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  • stop looking for someone else to make you happy. only you can make yourself happy. i feel sorry for the poor sap who you latch onto and then resent when he doesn't give you what he can't. you can't really love someone else unless you love yourself first.

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  • Thanks guys for the input and i also realised that as long as you have great friends at least it wont be as bad because at least you have people in your life to make you happy.

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  • ive felt this way on numerous occasions, and i actually feel this way at the moment.

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  • I feel like this all the time..

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  • omg! i feel like that too.

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  • Everyone's felt like that at times. The only people who have never felt self-doubt are most likely suffering a psychological condition.

    Even though most people feel it, most people continue to have relationships until they find if not the "one", the one they settle with.

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  • Its normal cause you wont.

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