Is it normal to feel hurt by

On facebook I found my old high school boyfriend he's single and I'm married for 30yrs . He lives in one state me another so we talked on the phone and thru email things got a little hot so he broke it off . My husband is a wonderful man who Iove very much so then why does it hurt so bad to no longer speak to my old boyfriendo

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Based on 39 votes (19 yes)
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  • loviex102

    We always want what we can't have. Humans are complex.

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  • TieDiedSuperstar

    It's a normal escapist response. It's nothing personal. It sounds like you're simply unable to resolve your feelings. You never will learn.

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  • Forbidden fruit.

    He was smart and decent to break it off.

    And to be honest about it, you were the opposite: unwisely playing with fire that could have toasted 30 years of marriage. Wizen up.

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  • saraaaaaaa

    Doesn't sound like you really love your husband. Go with your dream

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  • Najwa

    We all long for a break in the routine , a new face, attention... Especially from a man who was in ur life in ur younger days, reminds you of ur younger version or it reminds u of trait / behaviour/ reaction you may no longer possess or feel...

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