IIN to feel hurt and not wanting to sing again in front of boyfriend?

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  • Sog
    9 years ago | pl

    Maybe comparing you to the "bad" singer wasn't the best thing to do.

    But I think he was just trying to make you feel better as you seem to be self conscious about him being the better singer.

    If your boyfriend really was annoyed by your singing, I don't think he would have put up with it for four years. I bet that he's really frustrated and upset that you made such a big deal about such a little comment after you've been together for this long.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago | pl

      "He did told me the singer was bad, saying that I sing better is putting me at the level of this singer (the ones that cant sing)"

      How does saying you are BETTER then someone is putting you on the SAME level?

      Doesn't make any fucking sense!

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      • Sog
        9 years ago | pl

        Well the singer on TV was likely part of a joke. "You sing better than someone who is so bad that it's being used as a punchline" is not really a compliment at all.

        Just like if you were watching Biggest Loser, it's probably not a good idea to say, "See? At least you aren't THAT fat!"

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        • [Old Memory]
          9 years ago | pl

          No. Because he didn't say it like that, he said "you sing better than him" and not "atleast you are not THAT bad!" There is a diffrence.

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