Is it normal to feel forever alone?

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I just haven't met anyone who seems to find me interesting or attractive.i feel so alone.

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  • unseriousness
    6 years ago | pl

    You don't necessarily have to be interesting nor attractive. You have to be trustworthy and put in effort into your relationships.

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    • Kevinevan
      6 years ago | pl

      Thats my problem!! Its not worth it to me to put any effort into a relationship. Thanks for the insightful light bulb moment. Damn I'm fucked up.

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      • unseriousness
        6 years ago | pl

        Glad I could help! So are you gonna start putting in some effort? It'll be worth it when you find yourself not feeling alone anymore.

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        • Kevinevan
          6 years ago | pl

          Although I am always polite and friendly in real life, unlike the asshole I am on here. If that's not enough then it's probably not worth additional effort.

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        • Kevinevan
          6 years ago | pl

          I probably won't, and no I'm not being sarcastic. The only effort I've done is open a tinder account.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago | pl

    Same thing happens to me. Some days I just wish I could disappear.

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  • Lxyrab
    6 years ago | pl

    It hurts to feel alone, I know. But if you're not happy alone, you're not going to be happy in a relationship either. I can tell you this as a divorced 40 year old. I was a forever alone, and then I wasn't. But now that I'm on the other side of it, I can tell you pursue your interests. Make a life you enjoy. Don't rely on another person to make you happy, because that's not their job. It's your job to make you happy. Finding a person to share that happiness with is just a bonus.

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  • The_Loitering_Creep
    6 years ago | pl

    You, my friend, have come to the right place. I am a misfit that nobody wants. My days are filled with too much solitude. This website is my only connection to people.

    Welcome to IIN.

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    • dweeb
      6 years ago | pl

      I've tried to be an emotional tampon for the women of IIN, but they just flush me down the toilet.

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      • The_Loitering_Creep
        6 years ago | pl

        Of course they have Dweeb. That's what losers do to other losers. People are regulars here only because they ARE losers. Winners would never waste their time at a place like this.

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        • dweeb
          6 years ago | pl

          Are you saying I should be a winner?

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          • The_Loitering_Creep
            6 years ago | pl

            Fuck no. I'm saying numb yourself to the misery of losing. Someone will always finish on the bottom. Assholes at IIN talk like they are important when really it is denial of their pathetic lives.

            Misery cannot be helped, just accept it like I have.

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  • joesphwaterfall
    6 years ago | pl

    I do bc u hate on me

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  • Kevinevan
    6 years ago | pl

    Yep I feel this way. I have absolutely no one save a few friends who I barely see. No family, no relationship, no one.

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  • KiwiWisdom
    6 years ago | pl

    It's normal to feel alone when you don't have someone who seems interested around you. I spent my 20s thinking there must have been something wrong with me. Fast forward and I ended up married, no idea how I got there. I didn't date, didn't go out with friends, didn't hit the library let alone the club. Just met the right person on a whim and suddenly I had someone to talk to. Stay open to the possibility and you'll be way more successful than if you believe it'll never happen.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago | pl

    "We're not Alone Here"

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