Is it normal to feel extremly not good enough? ...

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ok, soo ive been going out with this girl for a while. i like her alot, she likes me alot but sometimes i just dont ever feel good enough. its almost destroying me. i want to do everything i can for her, but i just dont know if i can or not. i want to keep her, more than anything in the world. but feeling like this is sort of making her a little mad. is this normal...?

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  • Thatguy777
    9 years ago

    I felt this way towards a girl once. I was so in love with her. She found out. She's no longer a part of my life....fuck

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i have felt like this sometimes.....its perfectly normal just hopefully you dont think about this for everything cause you could hurt yourself mentally

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    You are over-doing it so listen to your girlfriend because it is irritating. Lighten up and accept that you feel good about each other. You are making things worse trying to be a perfectionist.

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  • zackman5000
    14 years ago

    Hmm that would called being needy and I would try to tone it down. Maybe explain why your doing this,she might understand better and she might let you know if she likes it or not,or even feel more loving towards you because your doing all this stuff because you dont want to lose her and you care alot about her.=) hope this helps.

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  • iamaleaver
    14 years ago

    I think a lot of people probably feel this way at one time or another. Sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough for my girlfriend. I feel like she's too good looking for me or that she's smarter and more ambitious and she could do better. I don't even normally have low self-esteem, I think it's something to do with putting her up on a pedestal because I love her so much. I don't let her know that I feel this way though. Nothing will drive a girl away faster than someone who isn't confident in themself. It helps to think that if your girl didn't think you were good enough for her, she more than likely wouldn't be with you. I'm a girl and have dated both men and women and I can tell you I have never dated anyone that I didn't want to be with. Girls usually don't do that because there's really no reason to. I would say next time you're feeling like this just remember that she probably really cares about you and sees something in you that you don't see.

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