Is it normal to feel everyone is better than you?
I feel like I am scum and that everyone else is a million times better than me. I feel I could give my life for anyone as mine is so much more insignificant than anyone else.
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I feel like I am scum and that everyone else is a million times better than me. I feel I could give my life for anyone as mine is so much more insignificant than anyone else.
I used to think like that too, but it was because I was raised to believe that everyone was superior to me. I wasn't depressed or thinking, "Oh, woe is me. I'm so inferior. Wa, wa, wa!" I just thought it was true and I didn't know anything different. It wasn't until I was about 25 that I started to realize that it was a wrong way of thinking. Everyone is equal, including me (and you too).
Dude, there's no point comparing yourself to others to begin with. There is always someone who is richer or taller or whatever than you no matter how rich or tall you are. The only thing you have to compare yourself to is yourself. You must always better yourself.
You have a job? Work hard to improve your skills. You play sport? Do whatever it takes to improve at it. You want to cook better? Start learning. You want to improve relationships with other people? Get out there and start socialising.
Hope this helps. Hey, don't feel bad about yourself, OK?
Look at the way in which you benchmark yourself, to what standard are you measuring yourself and others against? Noone is better than you, they may have better circumstances than you and they may feel they are better than you because of it, ...but dont support their conclusions by agreeing with them. Unfortunately for any of us who have felt the way you do, and we all have at one time or another, its those same people who will want to fight you if you start to change your paradigm and places you more equally than before. Have faith. Its easy to say, hard to do.
Normal!
this is what we call Low Self Esteem! It's when you feel like you are a piece of sh* and everyone is better than you.
Being a low self esteem can be hard but trust me, it's 10x better than people who are High Self Esteem: And those people are the ones who think they are always right, no matter how you argue with them, they will not listen and think they are right.
it's not good to be low self esteem because your will never evolve!
You need to accept who are better than you and who are not!
I mean do you own a job? if yes, then how can jobless be better than you?
do you live in a house? if yes, how can homeless be better than you?
Yes some men may be surrounded by women while you get none. That doesn't mean he is better than you, it's because women like that guy's personality or are just too stupid to go out with jerks and end up being dumped or used.
Change your self esteem/ ego to normal.