Is it normal to feel bad when a woman cries but not when a man cries?

I've read that it is healthy for your heart to cry, and that one of the reasons that men have more heart trouble than women is because they rarely cry. There's nothing wrong with a man crying, but I advise them to not do it in public, just because some people, the narrow minded types, will get all weirded out by it. But there's nothing wrong with a man crying in front of anyone who cares about him and isn't going to be judgemental, which anyone who truly cares won't be.