Is it normal to feel bad about not trusting your friends?

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  • joybird
    11 years ago | pl

    If she's known you for so long then she knows you just tell the truth without softening the blow (just like me).

    I think you were being set up for a rip off!!

    It seems a strange thing for someone to ask but years ago I was in a similar situation. I was asked to be a guarantor ... DO I LOOK RETARDED!!! The friend disappeared off the face of the earth a few weeks later!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago | pl

      Yeah, I can't lie to people. I honestly don't feel good about what I said, but it's honestly how I feel. I doubt she wanted to get something out of me though. Very likely it was just an honest question.

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      • joybird
        11 years ago | pl

        Then I fail to see why she took offence!!

        I don't lie either but if that's your attitude, what's it got to do with her?!

        Don't worry about it. She has some sort of issue you are not aware of - maybe she regards herself as above all your other friends and so should be trusted. Dunno but I wouldn't even trust my own brothers or sisters.

        Stay realistic about people and just be yourself.

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