Is it normal to feel awkward with your first time hooking up?

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I hooked up with a guy for the first time. It was a bit awkward at first, is this normal? I also am pretty sure when he went down on me, he proceeded to stick his fingers in my ass. I have never had someone do that to me before (as far as fingers, in my ass) should I ask him why he done that? I wasn’t a huge fan?? How do I say something but not to offend him?

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Based on 16 votes (13 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Who cares if you offend him? It's your ass, and you have a right to veto some jerk fingering it.

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  • Avocadopeople
    3 years ago

    Why are you doing this during a pandemic?

    But it's normal. Most guys put their fingers in women's asses.

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    • Bass
      3 years ago

      I do not think it's normal at all for a guy to stick his finger in anyones ass, besides these days you need to ask before doing anything.

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      • Tommythecaty
        3 years ago

        Normal yo prude

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    If you feel uncomfortable conversing with a lover, y’all shouldn’t be lovin’.

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  • CDmale4fem
    3 years ago

    But many guys prefer to put something else in there. Also, i think because many guys, without admitting it, probably enjoy it being done to them, so in return maybe they think their partner or 'hookup" will like it too. Of course it would be less of a surprise to you if he maybe mentions it ahead of time.

    One persons "Oh hell yes" can be anothers "no F'n way in hell you gonna try and put that in my ass"

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  • liltaylor
    3 years ago

    I guess it depends on whether you like him or are just hooking up. Was he being agressive and that turned you off?
    I know if i really like someone ill be super bummed if i get a vibe that i was a booty call or used.

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  • Resurgam53
    3 years ago

    You’re “pretty sure” he proceeded to stick his fingers in your ass? I always can tell when someone is putting something in my ass, preferably a cock!

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