What I meant by conditions is that I feel as if people will only love me for what I do, not who I am. People can love me because I draw, write, pain, sing, play guitar, listen, care, give, etc... and they can say therefore because they love those things they live me. Bu it doesn't. Because if I stopped doing those things I would still be me. But if I stopped doing those things, they would stop loving me, because they loved that thing and not me. Also, just like every other human, I make mistakes. So if they love me for what I do and then I make a mistake, which no one would love, I would loose that love. I know love us is fickle, but it can't be that fickle, can it? But to love me for what I am- energetic, creative, bubbly, intelligent, ambitious- that which is unending, then I would be loved unconditionally. Despite mistakes. But I feel i 'll never have that.
is it normal to feel as if no one can love you unconditionally
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What I meant by conditions is that I feel as if people will only love me for what I do, not who I am. People can love me because I draw, write, pain, sing, play guitar, listen, care, give, etc... and they can say therefore because they love those things they live me. Bu it doesn't. Because if I stopped doing those things I would still be me. But if I stopped doing those things, they would stop loving me, because they loved that thing and not me. Also, just like every other human, I make mistakes. So if they love me for what I do and then I make a mistake, which no one would love, I would loose that love. I know love us is fickle, but it can't be that fickle, can it? But to love me for what I am- energetic, creative, bubbly, intelligent, ambitious- that which is unending, then I would be loved unconditionally. Despite mistakes. But I feel i 'll never have that.
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Terence_the_viking
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I think you are getting with the wrong people nothing should break the bond of true love.