Is it normal to feel anxious when thinking of one day being pregnant?

I am in a serious relationship with the love of my life and I know that we are going to get married one day.
I've always wanted to have kids, but I am terrified of having a child. I think that after one gives birth, the relationship between a husband and wife changes and that really scares me. I like the way things are going now...we have all the time to ourselves to do anything we want and to have fun but I don't think once we have a baby we'll be able to do that.
Is it normal to feel this way?

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  • Ur just not ready yet

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  • My son is almost two now. Everything did change! While I miss time alone with hubby, my son brings such joy to our lives! It's just a different stage of life. You'll know when your relationship is ready for a baby. Try to relax and enjoy your restful, uninterrupted sleep and couple time!!

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  • Lol yes it's normal I'm sure. But it seems like a silly thing to worry about right now you're not even married yet. And yes it does change a relationship but if the one you have is good and right in the first place it will only change it for the better. Trust me. It won't always be easy but at the end of the day you'll still love and have eachother as a family. Once you have them you'll be saying the exact opposite. How you could never live or imagine your life without your babies. Good luck and enjoy your young relationship and where it takes you. :)

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  • Yeah. I'm terrified of ever having children but I do want to have one at some point in my life. Normsl

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