is it normal to feel an immediate connection with someone online?

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  • This is 100% normal. I came across a forum online that I have since struck up great friendships with people all over the world. One guy I immediately clicked with, and we talked a lot, for long periods of time and just really got along. We had different interests but similar personalities that just complimented each other's so well. I had such a huge crush on him. I didn't mean for it to happen, but it did, and it happened fast. Unfortunately the 3,500 miles between us meant that it wasn't going to go anywhere which is a real shame and I still wonder what would have happened if we had met in person to this day. Some day I would really like to meet him and see if we click in person too, even if it's just as friends. My advice to you would be this: If you click with someone, you click. If you're compatible with them, you're compatible. Just because you met online doesn't mean that you like each other's personality any more or less in person. I'd say go for it while you can... Online relationships fade away over time with no proper memories between you. If you have a connection with someone, pursue it and see where it takes you. Why not right?

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    • Thank you very much! I've also met 3 of my best friends from the internet, and met all of them in person. I suppose, when looking at other online relationships/friendships, there's hardly any distance between us really. Thanks again.

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