is it normal to feel an immediate connection with someone online?

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  • DragonQueen
    9 years ago | pl

    Can't you just meet someone in person. That's The way we used to to it. Just go to your local bus stop. And wear something Sexay. That's how I met my husband of sixteen years.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago | pl

      I see what you mean, but I'd just like to say... It's not quite as easy as that when you live where I do. I don't have a lot of money and so the area I live in is full of scummy pushovers - I'd rather not! Also, I found this guy online, and I connect with him - so I connect with him, that's not my choice. I appreciate your comment but it's easier said than done!

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      • DragonQueen
        9 years ago | pl

        That's understandable, I guess times are different now. And a good man is hard to find, even a slightly decent one. But I just don't trust this online meeting. Maybe because I used to meet guys,in person. Well if he offers to meet you. Then go ahead, But let him ask you. Don't ask him. Or you will come off as desparate. Good luck to you!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago | pl

          I'd also just like to put out there that I have met 3 of my best friends through the internet - one's in Cornwall, one's in London and one's in Newcastle - and I have met them all in person, so I have met people I click with before online. But this is the first person I've clicked with this much. I spoke to him 'live' for the first time the other day over video chat, but yes, I will wait for him to make the move on meeting. Thank you very much!!

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