Is it normal to feel alone in your marriage?

My husband drives a truck but when he's home just plays clash of clans stays up all night. I've been wanting to be intimate with him but he'd rather play his game last night I caught him on the couch j.o. I'm not sure how I should feel. I've been trying to give him space to work out his problems that he doesn't seem to want to share with me. But it's killing me I've cried myself to sleep a few nights now. Any suggestions

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  • RoseIsabella

    Try to talk with him about your feelings, and perhaps suggest some couples therapy. Even if he declines to go to couples therapy I think you ought to go for your own sake. Don't be afraid to cultivate you're own personal hobbies, career and spiritual pursuits.

    I do want to say that I think he sounds like a piece of shit, and really he sounds more like a man-child than a real man. I think it's inappropriate and selfish for a person in relationship with limited time to spend with his or her partner to waste time playing a stupid video game and masturbating.

    If ever you find yourself feeling that you wish to leave the relationship get yourself a good attorney and do your research. If it turns out that he's cheating show him no mercy! He rather sounds like a spineless piece of garbage.

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  • marriedcouple09

    Hey that’s what my wife does how about you give me you’re email I’ll give you mine maybe we can hangout lol

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  • Missypoo

    Stay faithful and start documenting any dirt you can find on the s.o.b....If he ends up filing for divorce take his cheating ass for everything he has. Stay strong and buy a nice sex toy if he doesn't get his shit together, then take that b#$&h to the cleaners.

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  • monstermomof2

    Well I talked to him last night up until this week I thought we were happy but I've been informed that he's not sure he wants to be part of this family anymore. He's been talking to other women so hes already given up and doesn't seem like he wants to try 13 years of marriage means nothing. I feel like my heart's been ripped out

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    • JonathanOo

      That's so sad. If you still love him I'd do my best to make sure he knows damn well how much and make him remember why you got married in the first place

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      • Forreal2

        She isn't the one who should be making the effort to keep the relationship.

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        • JonathanOo

          Both should be. Not just him/her

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    • Animal_Johnson

      I'm sorry. When you wrap yourself up in kitchen plastic wrap and meet him at the door, only to be rejected, prospects are not good.

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  • barrysbigbeanbag

    Search his truck,for womans clothes,maybe he's turning tricks as a tranny!

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