Agreed. However, from my experience actively trying to find people to connect with doesn't work either. I have found that if the poster would just keep being himself, and not give-in to the pressure to fit in and adjust his personality in order to make social contact one or more people who feel the same way will eventually find their way to him. It really only takes one 'cool' person who is willing to connect with him and introduce him to other like-minded people to find his place.
is it normal to feel alone in college??
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Agreed. However, from my experience actively trying to find people to connect with doesn't work either. I have found that if the poster would just keep being himself, and not give-in to the pressure to fit in and adjust his personality in order to make social contact one or more people who feel the same way will eventually find their way to him. It really only takes one 'cool' person who is willing to connect with him and introduce him to other like-minded people to find his place.