Men are allways like that. They are affraid of serious things like marriage and babies! But, when it happens they are happy most of the times. But there is another side of the medal: if you have left the baby, and if he would have been angry and would not love this baby, try to imagine how the baby would feel about it all? The baby would not have the love of the father. But anyway, it was a person already, and he has a destiny, and that abortion was his destiny!
I really don't think it's fair to say that all men are afraid of marriage and children.
Or that it's better for a baby to be aborted rather than not having a father figure.
Poster, of course you have a right to be sad and I think most people (who have a heart anyways) feel this way. Nothing I can say can make you feel better, but you did what you thought was best at the time and that's more than most people can say. Someday you'll have another chance to make this right.
Is it normal to feel a loss after an abortion
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Men are allways like that. They are affraid of serious things like marriage and babies! But, when it happens they are happy most of the times. But there is another side of the medal: if you have left the baby, and if he would have been angry and would not love this baby, try to imagine how the baby would feel about it all? The baby would not have the love of the father. But anyway, it was a person already, and he has a destiny, and that abortion was his destiny!
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I really don't think it's fair to say that all men are afraid of marriage and children.
Or that it's better for a baby to be aborted rather than not having a father figure.
Poster, of course you have a right to be sad and I think most people (who have a heart anyways) feel this way. Nothing I can say can make you feel better, but you did what you thought was best at the time and that's more than most people can say. Someday you'll have another chance to make this right.