He sounds like a great, patient guy,and it sounds like you were able to avoid picking another abusive partner (which is common for abused women.) And maybe one of the reasons he is attracted to you is because he likes being a protector. Still, it might get tiresome for him after a while if he continues to feel like he has to prove himself. Wouldn't be a bad idea to get some counseling and explore your past relationship and put some closure on it so it doesn't negatively affect your current relationship.
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He sounds like a great, patient guy,and it sounds like you were able to avoid picking another abusive partner (which is common for abused women.) And maybe one of the reasons he is attracted to you is because he likes being a protector. Still, it might get tiresome for him after a while if he continues to feel like he has to prove himself. Wouldn't be a bad idea to get some counseling and explore your past relationship and put some closure on it so it doesn't negatively affect your current relationship.