Is it normal to fear your fantasies escalating?

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I have always found taboo fantasies arousing: homo-erotica, incest, rape, pedophilia. Aside from gay sex, I know these things are considered wrong. However, I thought it was ok to simply imagine them, after all I wasn't hurting anybody. When these thoughts and daydreams started I was the one in the submissive role, the young one, the vulnerable one, the one being assaulted. Somewhat recently I have found these fantasies changing to where I am the rapist or pedophile... I have started looking for porn where these situations are played out. I am worried at the direction my mind is taking. I remember playing sexual games with my little sister when I was young and while I was innocent then I am now concerned. We'd pretend I was a boy and I would 'drug' her and 'take advantage' of her. Is something wrong with me?

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  • Justin1015
    12 years ago

    yes, but you seem worried, so get some help, maybe see a shrink, ya know, but its good that you dont want to be a rapist and such

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  • SQUEEZETHEFATTIEMAKEHERCRY
    6 years ago

    Fantasy is just that a FANTASY!! Don't sweat it. I have violent fantasies for 45 years. Never acted on ANY OF THEM!!

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  • peeboi37
    11 years ago

    yes make absolutely sure you know which side of reality these feelings are rooted in. one clue is that you only feel these things once you are horny and after you cum, the thoughts are repugnant to you. if you have thoughts of children that MAKE YOU horny when you see children in daily life then seek help asap. also it may be helpful to define pedophelia as the attraction to young children. it gets a little muddy when you talk about teens, since they are sexual creatures already and until 100 years ago 14 was marrying age. its normal to see a pubescent teen as sexual. you just cant touch.

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  • tondilejo
    12 years ago

    I have had a similar experience. But you shouldn't seek out porn, for me porn is mass-produced prostitution, and it would be the first step into making your fantasies real, by supporting people that are abusing others with making that kind of pornos. If you are sure you wouldn't act the fantasies out, don't worry, if you are afraid you could possibly lose control, seek help.

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  • Maid_in_Pink
    12 years ago

    The part that concerns me about this is the initial statement, you fear your fantasies. This isn't normal at all, You obviously know something is going on and therefore aren't a sociopath of some sort. I would say you should probably see some psychiatric advice. Be CLEAR that you in real life have never attempted these and have had a fantasy involving such things and express to them you came there seeking answers. If you word things like this wrong you could inadvertently submit yourself to being investigated for suspicion of a crime in your real life. - So seek advice from a professional but be clear, sooo many people are rediculously vague on things and just spout out very non-descript things, it's important to be CLEAR.

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