Is it normal to fear porn/sexy videos?

My parents always told me that I should never watch porn. It gives you unrealistic expectations of what sex will be like with your partner. It makes sense to me. Even though I feel I know this is true, I still feel the urge to look at naked girls online. I'm interested to know if watching porn creates a "tolerance" for sex. If it makes you require more to have a good orgasm and to stay interested. If anyone has experience with this, i'd be interested to hear your story.

Is It Normal?
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  • It's so stupid because it gives everyone unrealistic expectations to what the human body looks like and what sex is. Sex isn't supposed to be a horn-fest with 20 people. It's supposed to be a good time between two people that are attracted to each other, but thanks to porn guys want every girl to act like sluts in the sack.

    Go america.

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  • I don't see why porn is necessary to look at in the first place. Sure it's tempting, but why not just use your imagination? I looked at porn for awhile, but it made it a lot harder to get off just using my imagination. After awhile off of porn, it became just as easy to use my imagination. To me, watching porn is like watching TV all the time instead of reading a book. To me, that proves that porn is bad. It just becomes physical after awhile. You just stop thinking about it. (good) Sex is a lot more than that.

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  • Porn's actually been linked to slower orgasm and inability to have 'regular' sex, simply because if it being so unrealistic. It's an extreme case, but it DOES numb you to pleasure outside porn.

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  • There have been psychological studies saying that watching the hardcore stuff may desensitize you, meaning that the more you watch, the more you expect, the harder it is to get off....yeah.
    It doesn't mean that you shouldn't watch it or fear it.
    Everyone has their own fantasies and watching porn helps play some of those fantasies out.
    Just be sure to remember that porn stars are paid to do what they do, even if you watch amateur porn and such, most all porno is paid for somehow. So don't expect this when it comes to the real thing.

    If you keep that line between fantasy and reality solid, then you really shouldn't worry about watching any kind of X vids.....enjoy your alone time =}

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