You want someone to love you not just have sex with you.
Someone who loves you will be kind, true and not have sex as the main goal. Someone who loves you will be happy enough just to be with you. Someone who just wants sex will be rough since to them it will just be a phisical thing, not emotional.
No one that's worth knowing really cares if your fat or not. If you're confident with yourself and true to your personality then that's what matters.
I'd just try being myself and living my life without only thinking about trying to find a guy. That way i'd meet new people who'd like me for me and if a guy comes along, he'll probably be more likly to like you for you and not just use you for sex.
Is it normal to fear having sex
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You want someone to love you not just have sex with you.
Someone who loves you will be kind, true and not have sex as the main goal. Someone who loves you will be happy enough just to be with you. Someone who just wants sex will be rough since to them it will just be a phisical thing, not emotional.
No one that's worth knowing really cares if your fat or not. If you're confident with yourself and true to your personality then that's what matters.
I'd just try being myself and living my life without only thinking about trying to find a guy. That way i'd meet new people who'd like me for me and if a guy comes along, he'll probably be more likly to like you for you and not just use you for sex.