Is it normal to fear dating because you know men perfer younger women?

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  • I mean this, I don't know you so I have NO reason to lie! ANY man that goes out with a Lady and/or makes love to a Lady and thinks about a younger woman/girl IS NOT worth your time! True beauty is on the inside! I am 55 and can make love then do it again, although I love laying next to a Lady and touching her much more. Look for someone with old fashioned values, they DO NOT have to be old. As for ED, that is a marketing ploy by the drug companies, I could put a 20 year old to shame!!

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    • Yeah, whatever, I'm mid 50s and you're either lying or, well, you're lying.

      First, yes men look at younger women. It's normal. Many of us have tried that path and figured out it's not worth it in the long run. We're old, they're not, and we generally have nothing in common. You need to accept the practical reality that men are wired to look/lust at women of childbearing years and you're not going to change that.

      Second, no, 50+ year old men can't do it like 20 year olds regardless of what TN_Robert says. Maybe he can but I doubt it. Anyway, 99% of men can't, and the 1% who claim they can probably can't either. Many of us need viagra/cialis to function well. Just deal with that. It's life. We don't like it any better than you do, and no it's not your failing, it's ours.

      Finally, if you know you aren't going to be intimate after a normal amount of time, you should tell the guy up front. Why go down a path you know will lead to mutual disappointment?

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      • Stop using your "wiring" as an excuse, it's pathetic.

        Are you telling me that a 50 year old is so over-the-hill he can't get it up? I thought that happened aged 60. Damn.

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