Is it normal to fanticize about being a sex victim?

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When I was 8 I was molested by two teenage boys that were nieghbors of mine. My family just swept it under the rug when they discovered what had happened to me, and it was never spoke of again. My parents divorced and we moved away. This is the part that confuses and scares me, I now as an adult, for years I have fantisized about being raped. I'ts really the only thing that gets me aroused. I think of all kinds of ways it could happen. These thoughts really turn me on. I think of it when my boyfriend and I make love, we finish with me unsaticfied but he knows nothing of these fealings. I'm so confused, is there somthing seriously wrong with me? This wieghs so heavily on my mind and heart, please someone shed some light on this for me! Thanks.

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  • sydney11393
    13 years ago | pl

    Tell your boyfriend that you like it rough. Don't worry, men love that stuff. He'd love it, trust me. Just say something like "harder" or "pull my hair" etc during sex. He'll get crazy the second he hears it.

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  • shiny_stuff_girl
    13 years ago | pl

    i had been in a simular situation, i thought i was the only one who had rape fantasies.. but always make sure if u act it out to have a 'safe word' because theres always going to be risks of something you dont want or if u change ur mind the first time. Its really worth it once u get the idea across right

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  • infinite
    13 years ago | pl

    I was with a girl who told me she liked to be raped. After that i started "forcing" her to have sex, she'd resist, put up a good fight, but she did like it.

    Maybe if you told your guy you want to try some "role playing" and eased him towards the idea of it he'd play along.

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